btvdts Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 so my break up happened a year ago. for the past year I'd ask myself/god why why why? I was so blinded by my hate, fear, regrets and such that I didn't realize the answer was right in front of me the whole time. ok this may sound weird but I remember that night she broke up with me thinking to myself...man I wonder where I will be a year from now. well that year is up. the other day was exactly a year. I was sitting on my front porch thinking it over. I realized I was lucky!! I realized I was about to make a huge mistake back then. my mistake was that I was about to join the army to support her and her girls. I was also planning on proposing to her. here I was about to make these huge life choices for a girl that had no intention staying with me. no intention of working through the tough times. I realized that now... well I'm just liable to myself. whatever I do now only affects me. my friends... I know its tough...but take a step back and think your relationship through. don't waste a year of your life holding on to something that's gone. I did... and It didn't do anything for me! yes it will take time... longer for some then others, but by golly does it get better! love the ones who have been there for you the whole time! love yourself! and remember...yes...you were loved once...and you will be loved again! ohhh and one more advice...don't spend a lot of time on this site...that means that you aren't out there living your life! it is what it is until it isn't...then it isn't 3
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