Trane Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 I feel like this girl is flaking me off. A few months ago I approached a girl after work, told her she was good looking and gave her ny number. She texts me the next day telling me how impressed she was, liked my confidence and said I was also good looking. We have a coffee date and a dinner date. Both went well and the conversation was positive between us. Told me she enjoyed herself both times. Next thing she tells me is that she's taking off for a 10 day vacation with her friends. In between this she breaks a date to see each other before she leaves, reschedules and then breaks it with the busy excuses, tons of stuff to finish, deadlines and such. She hasn't called or texted back, and she's supposedly been back almost 3 weeks. Left her a message and a text asking about her trip. No response as of yet. How much time should I give her to get back to me? Should i forget about her altogether, delete her number and forget we ever met?
Art_Critic Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 She is seeing someone else... anytime a woman flakes on you give her ONE chance and if she flakes again as in your case then next here.. It doesn't sound like she is playing hard to get but telling you to get lost instead. 4
mammasita Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 No call back, no text after you've reached out? This is a no brainer.....delete and move on. 3
Assasda Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 So she hasnt contacted you in 3 weeks? Its over man. Move on date other women. 2
smackie9 Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 You waited 3 weeks??? I think she sensed you liked her a little too much and she did the old "I'll avoid him in hopes he will get the hint I'm not interested." trick. 1
d0nnivain Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 I might not delete it just so that you know it's her in the unlikely event she ever does call back. Then you can make an informed decision to answer or ignore.
Toodaloo Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 I might not delete it just so that you know it's her in the unlikely event she ever does call back. Then you can make an informed decision to answer or ignore. Oh I don't know he could always say the old "Ohh its you" in grumpy voice and hang up... i don't think she will be calling though. Time to move on.
d0nnivain Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 Oh I don't know he could always say the old "Ohh its you" in grumpy voice and hang up... i don't think she will be calling though. Time to move on. I too doubt she'll call but I think clicking ignore is a bit softer then hanging up.
Toodaloo Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 I too doubt she'll call but I think clicking ignore is a bit softer then hanging up. Your too good... I am regaining my "bit3h" streak!
dispatch3d Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 I wouldn't go to the effort to delete it unless you need more room on your phone or something but I definitely wouldn't pursue her anymore until she pursued me.
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