usernames18 Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 I fell in love with the most beautiful man I have ever met. Everything about him from his fear of clowns, to his goofy personality was special to me. He left me two years ago, and I grieved his loss for so long. He recently came back into my life as a friend, then suddenly started ignoring me. I found out he had a girlfriend, and I was crushed. Every part of me shattered and I never thought I would feel happiness after him. He was the sun and the moon and all the billions of stars; no one could love him like I loved him. Well, I did not take it well and I cried for days. Finally, I took control. I dyed my hair, bought some new clothes and listened to some bad-ass chick music. That's when I realized, I will be OK. Regardless of how much I loved Ben, I will be OK. The pain is slowly dissipating and thinking of a future without him is not as unbearable as it once was. My future will be bright and plentiful, and I will fall deeper in love with a greater man and have a wonderful family. If you are currently heartbroken, I want you to know that it does get better. The pain will not last forever and you CAN live without this person. YOU are in control of your life. YOU can feel better regardless of who hurt you and broke you. Take the focus off of this person who ripped you to shreds and start thinking of what is best for you, because that's who matters.YOU. Eventually, they will come to realize that they lost someone who would have loved them with everything they had, and when they realize that, it will be too late. 2
Dante311 Posted November 8, 2014 Posted November 8, 2014 It always gets easier. It's the road to getting there that's tough. You go girl! Very happy for you =) Although it's only been 3 weeks or 2 weeks (I can't tell) NC... It's getting easier (probably b/c I've been dumped by the same girl 11 times in 4 years...) I should dye my hair and get a piercing through my dick =) No sarcasm intended. Seriously. No sarcasm. I want change too =)
MikeDsub Posted November 8, 2014 Posted November 8, 2014 Quick story. My first girlfriend/fiancée of 6 years wrote me a Dear John letter while I was serving in combat with our military. I was crushed, even more so when I heard from my best friend that she was having sex with a lot of guys I knew. I went crazy after that. Went to Australia, met a girl and after two weeks asked her to marry me. I went home, sent her a few thousand dollars to buy her plane ticket and pay off her rent but she never came. She wrote to me to tell me that she could not come but used my money to buy expensive new clothes and thanked me. Fast forward 35 years and I get a phone call from my ex fiancée. Seems that we both moved to the same town and she found me on Facebook. We talked. She thinks angels talk to her and can tell people their future over the phone. She lived in a commune for a long time before she married a guy, had a kid and as soon as her son graduated from college she left her husband to marry a woman. The picture she me was that of an overly obsess woman whose former drug life ravished her skin. She changed her last name to that of an animal that the angels told her about. Go back 10 years and an ex girlfriend who dumped me because I was pressuring her to have sex, emails me to tell me she used to be hooked on crack forced to become a stripper/prostitute to support her baby. She married a customer 20 years older than her and has a daughter hooked on crack. She wanted to be friends again as her husband was a very old man now and she was lonely. My life would have been so bad had these women not broken up with me. What was a terrible time back then turned into a wonderful life. As I got older I looked back on what events changed my life for the best. Little things like deciding to run to catch a train rather than waiting just 5 minutes for the next one, caused me to meet my wife. Just being at the right place at the right time can significantly alter your life. Stuff like you are going through is part of life and no matter how terrible they make you feel, they may hold the key to your future happiness.
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