blynnae05 Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 Is it possible for an ex to care about you or re - gain interest again? Even if they told you they dont care about you anymore or that a relationship is hopeless and they ignored you completely ..whether it took months or years until you heard from them again, or even reconciled things? Just wondering. Please share your stories ..thanks!
Dontfindme Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 Nope. Definitely not for me. Sounds like you're looking for hope, OP. I've been there. Curious to see the responses here.
mortensorchid Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 I have heard of that, even witnessed it in one couple I know. He's my friend, always will be, but his gf is a complete loser. She starts things and quits on them, he tried to help her do things careerwise as well as interestwise, nothing works with her. IN fact, she broke it off, moved out of the house, and then took up with this other guy (who I never met) who was some drunken loser. She was with that guy for a few years, after it ended she called my friend again, and now they are back together. I would like to strangle him for it, but it's his business and I am not going to interfere, I think she'll screw things up enough without my doing or saying anything. I think people do it because they realize they made a mistake, or they are lonely at this moment and realize they should have done/said something when they had a chance. Honestly, move on because you'll feel better about yourself in the long run.
Divasu Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 Please share your stories ..thanks! My story is that it's happened once before. While the 2nd go around blossomed into a pretty great relationship, it ultimately ended several years later but not for the same reasons that broke us apart initially.
mrs rubble Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 It's very common for people to go back to their ex's for another shot, it's very uncommon for that next shot at the relationship to actually work. From my observation it usually ends again pretty quickly. I only know of one instance where a couple split over immature behaviour on the man's part, then they reconciled a year later. She made him sign a pre-nuptual agreement the second time and they've been back together for about 16years now, got married and had kids. But this is a rare exception.
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