Why Do Women Love Married Men?

[KeepCalmCarryOn]

Only because you couldn't. Not because you also didn't want to. On your other thread, you fantasized about him coming to you after she was married to him, after she was pregnant, after she had the baby, and for the duration of her marriage.

 

 

 

I don't think we disagree. I think it wasn't right. It really wasn't. I see what I did done by somebody else, it's hard to excuse. It's just as hard for me. The ends didn't justify the means.

 

And thank you. Like I said, neither one of us would ever cheat again.

 

 

 

I'm not sure how I can answer that... I don't think that we allowed feelings to develop, I honestly think they just did. What allowed the affair was that we didn't say know and went purely by those emotions without thinking beyond that.

 

 

 

I know you were defending and thank you... I know it wasn't because I needed it, but I think we both saw that I wasn't being clear and the intent was lost in translation.

 

I guess that goes to show, when even OW discuss why they do what they do, they can't agree on the "whys."

 

If I want it to continue I can make it continue actually.

I just feel like you don't get it. Like I wouldn't try to get your advice on how to get a husband...

[ComingInHot]

If I want it to continue I can make it continue actually.

I just feel like you don't get it. Like I wouldn't try to get your advice on how to get a husband...

 

So, instead of focusing on others. .. tell us again why you love MM?

[Redheaded Mistress]

If I want it to continue I can make it continue actually.

I just feel like you don't get it. Like I wouldn't try to get your advice on how to get a husband...

 

I've given you advice on how to work on yourself in a way that may attract the right type of men. If you wish to discuss that, we can discuss it on that thread. It's not appropriate here. So far you've disliked my advice.

[KeepCalmCarryOn]

So, instead of focusing on others. .. tell us again why you love MM?

 

I like him a lot. I like him a lot because physically he is attractive. I do not know him on a level where I can say "oh he is a great person" I mean he doesn't suck as a person. I know that he likes football and what his favorite college team is, I know he loves guns because of his military past, I know that he has this like superiority thing where he calls like everyone stupid and idk it's actually kind of funny (I know it doesn't seem like it would be but I mean it is kind of) and cute. He is just super attractive so everything he does is cute to me. He can be really douchey but lately we were texting and he said something really nice to me like he acknowledged my feelings for the first time ever. We were texting one day and he said that he can only text certain times and then he said "I'm sorry I feel like that sounds so mean, I hope you're not upset. I'm sorry". It was super nice. Like the nicest thing he has ever said except when he told me I was pretty and he is sure I will find someone soon (when we first started talking). I just like him.

[KeepCalmCarryOn]

I've given you advice on how to work on yourself in a way that may attract the right type of men. If you wish to discuss that, we can discuss it on that thread. It's not appropriate here. So far you've disliked my advice.

 

But you attracted a married man... Like how can you give me that advice? That is my point. I am not saying you didn't have good advice and I am interested in parts of it but in the end you attracted a taken man just like I did. You just tricked him into marrying you. I'm sure I can eventually trick someone into marrying me too. Not even tricked... You just got insanely lucky.. I could get insanely lucky. Not with this guy because I know it isn't happening there.

Edited October 27, 2014 by KeepCalmCarryOn