bebegal Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 question: I met this guy at work. We were talking but surrounded by a lot of people. It was the first time we had really talked besides saying hello in passing. well today is my last day ( well night as I work overnight_ On every floor we have everyone's pager/voice mail number. I was thinking of leaving a message on his voicemail that I enjoyed talking to him and leave my number. Is this ok.. i mean he never gave it to me however it is very accessable.. or do you think if he wanted to hang out he would have said something to me? I mean he may have a girlfriend, not be interested or shy. GUys---would you be turned off if a girl left you a friendly message on a work voicemail..... and would you have asked her to hang out if you were truly interestd? Just wondering before I make a fool of myself in exactly 3 hours .......
moimeme Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 So what if you 'make a fool of yourself'? You're leaving, and if you don't you'll kick yourself for not trying. If you do and he says 'no thanks' you'll have been courageous and gone for something you wanted.
Author bebegal Posted March 12, 2005 Author Posted March 12, 2005 moimeme-- Thanks, just what I wanted to hear. gonna go make that call- hope he doesnt have a gf
Devildog Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 I tend to disagree with moimeme. You are leaving, go for it. Not like you have to face those people come Monday morning, (or Monday night as the case may be). you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
Author bebegal Posted March 12, 2005 Author Posted March 12, 2005 ok well i left the message- hope he gets it, hope i said my number clear enough will update later
ziggue Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 Good Luck. . Hopefully things work out the way you want it too. If he doesn't have a girlfriend I say you could be in for a chance. Let us know what happens.
moimeme Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 I tend to disagree with moimeme. You are leaving, go for it. Not like you have to face those people come Monday morning, (or Monday night as the case may be). you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. DD, that's exactly what I said!!!!! Bebegal, I'm keeping my fingers crossed for ya!
Devildog Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 Yes, but in general my tendencies are to disagree with you moimeme. If I were ever to use the words "Agree", "you", "I" and "with" in a certain order you would have it in your sig line before anyone could blink. Can't have that now can we.
moimeme Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 Yes, but in general my tendencies are to disagree with you moimeme. If I were ever to use the words "Agree", "you", "I" and "with" in a certain order you would have it in your sig line before anyone could blink. Nah. I only quote famous folks. Or myself. Since you're neither, you can languish undisturbed by any fear that I'd abuse your sudden acquisition of enlightenment
dd1463 Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 I would be very happy if I got a massage like that, even if I was not interested in the person. It is a big ego boost You made a good decision! You can’t go wrong leaving a friendly massage like that.
purple21 Posted March 13, 2005 Posted March 13, 2005 sounds like you did the right thing to me - keep us posted
Author bebegal Posted March 13, 2005 Author Posted March 13, 2005 so.. waiting for the phone call.. When do you think he will call if he does. He got is saturday morning.. (well if he didnt have the day off and listened to the voicemail.. its not his cell phone its a work voicemail...) dd- glad that you wrote that reply-- would rather him think of it as an ego boost then have him think im a stalker --I hope he calls.. keep ya posted
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