frozengirl Posted October 25, 2014 Posted October 25, 2014 About fat guys and girls? They love and care for you the most as opposed to skinny people with the nice six pack abs and toned body's? Thats what I have heard from a few people, what are your thoughts on this matter?
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted October 25, 2014 Posted October 25, 2014 About fat guys and girls? They love and care for you the most as opposed to skinny people with the nice six pack abs and toned body's? Thats what I have heard from a few people, what are your thoughts on this matter? No size does not matter...it is what inside that matters. Unfortunately peeps are miss guided by stereotypical beliefs. It just so happens that finding someone on either side of the spectrum a bit rare to have loving and caring without being effected by emotional issues in regards to self image or shallow beliefs. 2
Lernaean_Hydra Posted October 25, 2014 Posted October 25, 2014 Weight has nothing to do with it. When I was massively overweight I was actually a really mean, bitter person who sucked at fostering relationships of any kind. There's ridiculous this idea that fat people make better partners (emotionally, sexually, etc) because they would just be oh so grateful for the attention and to have someone that wants them or wouldn't cheat because they couldn't do better anyway etc. But that couldn't be further from the truth. People are people and in my experience, I've yet to see a one segment of the population that is decidedly "better" relationship material than any other. 4
Jules Dash Posted October 25, 2014 Posted October 25, 2014 Don't think fat people are special when it comes to dating and relationships. They can get dates like everyone else, will reject you like everyone else and can cheat on you like everyone else. 1
OwMyEyeball Posted October 25, 2014 Posted October 25, 2014 If that's the case, America is in the midst of a compassion and kindness epidemic that's only getting better. 1
BluEyeL Posted October 25, 2014 Posted October 25, 2014 It would make sense that fear of loss would be higher for less conventionally attractive people, but in the end that doesn't change who they really are.
Lernaean_Hydra Posted October 25, 2014 Posted October 25, 2014 It would make sense that fear of loss would be higher for less conventionally attractive people, but in the end that doesn't change who they really are. Depends on the person. I've known some really large individuals (of both sexes) who seemed to have no shortage of admirers so the fear of loss was no more or less present than with other people.
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