slipped halo Posted October 24, 2014 Posted October 24, 2014 My LDR bf and I are on a no contact break after arguing a lot. He is house sharing with a girl and. A guy at uni and because of the jealousy I was feeling re his friendship with the girl I became more demanding to see him and he backed off. Said I was suffocating him but hey we hadn't met in a month ! Anyway he told me he would like to meet up at Xmas and take it from there ? He assures me there's no one else . But we were so close so how can he carry on normally whilst I'm devastated ? My friend had a chat with him on facebook and he was quite vague said he would ' probably see me at Xmas' and re getting back ' if it happens it happens ' she also asked if there was anyone else and he said he wasnt interested just wanted some space ? should I wait around ? Is it right that he can just waltz back into my life at Xmas ? Am worried he doesn't need me anymore because he's so close to his female flat mate . Feel I'm going mad im so confused
Elle1975 Posted October 25, 2014 Posted October 25, 2014 You should never wait around, for anybody. Not saying that you should start serial dating guys, just saying you should consider the relationship over. No such thing as a break. If anything you should be the one feeding him a few "we'll see" or "if it happens, it happens", then go live your life. Hopefully, meet someone new.
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