rdet123 Posted October 24, 2014 Posted October 24, 2014 So I have been on 2 dates with this guy. I think we have a lot in common and I would definitely like to keep dating him. The only problem is he is so flaky with his texting that it's driving me nuts! He will text me usually in the morning, and we will say a few things back and forth and then he will just not respond anymore... It's like he forgets or just doesn't care to message me back. Last night he texted me and I replied, but didn't text him back after a couple messages because I don't want to be the one who always texts back. Also I noticed that after our 2nd date he took down his dating profile, and then a couple days later got it back again. What confuses me is that he took me out to really nice places on both of our dates and added me to Facebook. Liked some of my pictures and such. He hasn't set up a 3rd date with me yet, and I don't know if I am suppose to text him today since I didn't text him back yesterday or just wait for him to initiate again?
Assasda Posted October 24, 2014 Posted October 24, 2014 People cant express themselves well in texts. Cut text out, if you'd like to talk to him and get to know him more. Actually call him 1
Michelle ma Belle Posted October 24, 2014 Posted October 24, 2014 I'm in agreement with Assasda. Some people seriously SUCK when it comes to texting. I personally don't understand it but I've bared witness to some amazingly interesting people in real life who can't string together a text to save their lives. I would also STOP stalking his dating profile or at least until you've had the talk about being exclusive. Until such time you are both free to do what you wish including frequenting dating sites and dating other people. Over thinking things will only get you into trouble and create problems where there aren't any. Save it for when there really IS a problem. If you want to initiate a text or make that call, DO IT! Life is too short to wait around for people to give you the green light on things that feel natural to you. You will only grow to resent it. Good luck. 1
Jules Dash Posted October 25, 2014 Posted October 25, 2014 If you want to initiate a text or make that call, DO IT! Life is too short to wait around for people to give you the green light on things that feel natural to you. You will only grow to resent it. Good luck. Adopt this way of thinking.
Recommended Posts