amkxoxo Posted October 24, 2014 Posted October 24, 2014 So I was dating this guy. The first date we didn't touch. The second date he came over and hung out with a bunch of friends of mine and we hugged goodbye. The third date we went to a beach and sat on a bench. I sometimes like to play the "I'm cold" card so guys want to warm me up. He did and we cuddled. We ended up kissing and then making out. Then we went back to my place and talked for a while and then made out more on my couch. We were sitting facing each other and making out. I am kind of inexperienced but I try. I grabbed the back of his neck and his hair there. My ex boyfriend liked this. Or I grabbed his upper arm. I also just touch a lot near his neck. And upper chest. My ex seemed to like this so I figured this guy would too. He didn't complain. At one point he ran his hand up the side of my face and stroked it down ward. I thought it was romantic and no guy had done this so it was new. Then when my hand was on his neck he reached up and grabbed it with his hand and pulled it away and intertwined our fingers. This was so new and foreign to me I didn't know what to think. It didn't last long because I pulled away eventually. The hand holding and lack of movement made me nervous and like I had to do something else. I got afraid that he grabbed my hand because I was moving too much or he didn't like what I was doing so he wanted me to stop so he grabbed my hand. Any opinions?
smackie9 Posted October 24, 2014 Posted October 24, 2014 Who knows, maybe it was distracting him, maybe he finds intensity in interlacing your hands. I've had lots of guys do this during sex, so don't think it's a negative thing. The one thing you should do is communicate with him about things that you do like, would like and feel uncomfortable about. basically what I'm saying is, don't assume, don't ask strangers, talk to him about it.
preraph Posted October 24, 2014 Posted October 24, 2014 Everyone is different what they like and there's no good way to find out except trial and error. Whatever it was, it's no big deal. He might be ticklish or something or just felt awkward that it was going on and didn't know himself what to do. He might also have been trying to "control himself" if he thought he was liking it too much or something. Don't worry about it, though.
Assasda Posted October 24, 2014 Posted October 24, 2014 hahahaha Kudos for this guy to get your mind racing. OP settle down. Thats all
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