criscris Posted October 24, 2014 Posted October 24, 2014 Hi im cris. My husband and I met when we're in HS. We've been together 16 yrs. My family has money and I never thought of having issues with money. For quite sometime, we always fight even because I have anger management issues because I felt unloved and he doesn't communicate with me. He always blocks everything I say or doesn't listen to anything i say. For instance, I say this to him as a suggestions, he doesn't listen, and when his mom says its, he said I have a solution to our problem.... we'll I just told him the same thing last night...... I don't feel appreciated. When we moved to another state, he left his job so we can move to a house my parents bought for us. I didnt work for 7 years to take care of our kids but when we moved, I started working even though we dont pay mortgage anymore. He said he doesnt want to be in the property title so I didn't added his name but now he always say I have to pay for my house because its mine (under my name). Now he got his dream job and got higher income, he opened his own bank account and said he will just contribute. He expect to give 100% of my income to pay bills and his just going to "share". So I told him give me savings and he only gave me $300 a month. He says he wants to control his own money and buy everything he wants...... We'll his not paying mortgage so why should I be a beggar!!!!! He spends his money he said for our kids future (college fund) and he wants to buy a property for his parents which I think is a bull considering he wants me to work to pay the bills!!! With all of this, we're drifting apart.... he doesnt feel making love because he wants me to just say yes to everything he wants but I can't just stand it! IM GOING CRAZY!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
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