juanito14 Posted October 24, 2014 Posted October 24, 2014 Im just wondering if it is normal for couples to start texting each other less the longer they’ve been together. Weve been dating for the last 5 months and official for the last 3. We used to be in contact pretty much from the time we were awake to when we went to bed from the start up till about 3 weeks ago. The thing is she started her new quarter of college about a month ago and is under a lot of pressure from her parents to do well. She has 3 midterms in the next three weeks currently. We have been texting each other a lot less than we used to and less lovey dovey than we used to be. I still try to be and we will both still call each other babe and that we love each other, it’s just different now. Now we tell each other good morning and she may take 2 hours to respond to that, then we’ll text for a little and then she may take another 2-3 hours to respond and we repeat that until she goes to bed. The thing is she had been either at school or studying during these times. She hasn’t given me any reason not to trust her, but I was emotionally scarred after my last two gf’s cheated on me and lied. I do trust her, but sometimes my head gets the best of me and the new lack of communication doesn’t help. Today she actually did call me while she was at school and we talked for about 25 minutes and then we both went on with our days until about 4-5 hours later. I’ve been trying to give her more space lately since she said she felt the need to back off a little because I was smothering her with a lot of lovey texts. So I started to do my own thing again, and for the last two weeks have not really said anything super lovey. Does this sound like something I should be worried about or am I just getting into my own head?
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