LoverOfDance Posted October 23, 2014 Posted October 23, 2014 Hi there, Ok so I met this guy online. I find him very attractive and I think he likes me too Problem however is; we've been talking for over 5 days now and the conversation is beginning to die down a bit. I really like this guy and I just want to know if anyone has ever been in a situation like this? If so, how did you keep your convos interesting?
Gloria25 Posted October 23, 2014 Posted October 23, 2014 I think the problem is you two talking for five days already.... After you get to work through the "where were you raised?", "where do you work" bla, blah common questions, what else is there left? That's why I believe you should take time and spread it out, when people spend too much time together, too soon, you don't get time to slowly grow and keep it fresh. I don't know "what" to tell you besides that. I'm kind of a stoic and quiet chick...so, I don't talk much with the guys I date.
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted October 23, 2014 Posted October 23, 2014 Gosh, 5 days and things are leveling off to being casual... Well I have a good imagination, always interested in the others day, thoughts and feelings. Sharing so much about one in general can never be shared all at once, and can take a lifetime to find everything. My first rule is... don't try, just let thing roll where they go. I have had times with others who are so quiet that I feel like my pulling the convo along was too daunting to try another time alone with them. Figuring they enjoyed company in group activity than just me. To keep interest I always share things about me that they would not normally see. Because I am easy going and humorous, simple convo can be jesting about odd things. Finding commonalities or new things to share between each other. Don't know if he is shy and has no way to open up without time. My way of opening up is to skirt around my personal self with humor. If he does not have that security blanket, then you must trust him with sharing your personal side in hopes he is not judgmental or finds you not as expected.
smackie9 Posted October 23, 2014 Posted October 23, 2014 Hi there, Ok so I met this guy online. I find him very attractive and I think he likes me too Problem however is; we've been talking for over 5 days now and the conversation is beginning to die down a bit. I really like this guy and I just want to know if anyone has ever been in a situation like this? If so, how did you keep your convos interesting? Men are sexual creatures, so if the convo doesn't turn hot and flirty, he's gonna decide to not ask you out, and fade away.
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted October 23, 2014 Posted October 23, 2014 Men are sexual creatures, so if the convo doesn't turn hot and flirty, he's gonna decide to not ask you out, and fade away. Here I thought women were the sexual creatures... if they don't get F$%@ed they shrivel and die.
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