danny12 Posted October 23, 2014 Posted October 23, 2014 Hi all, I'm wondering when me and my gf have sex (virgins right now) if we will be able to compromise with frequency of sex. We are good at compromises. I'm just wondering if the frequency of sex is something that could easily be worked out. I'm not worried about performance at all we will BOTH need work since we are still virgins. Idc about that. I'm just wondering because I know no two couples really always want sex at the same time. I'm wondering if it's something easily to compromise. Like usually we will talk sexually for now and all that and exchange pics. And if she is ever not in the moood and tells me no not tonight I do NOT feel rejected and I just move on. I'm wondering if this will be a useful tool that I have for when she will reject (because it will happen). So 2 questions: Is frequency of sex something that is easily compromised if both are willing to do so? And Is the tool I have of not feeling down or hurt or upset and can easily move on when gf rejects me of anything sexual, is this going to be a useful tool for future sex? Sexual things to me are not so important to me it seems. Will it change with sex? Idk probably not just something extra like icing on the cake!
stillafool Posted October 23, 2014 Posted October 23, 2014 If she isn't giving you sex now it is not going to get better. If you marry and have kids it will get worse. Couples who have alot of sex are sexually compatible and you and your girl are not. If sex doesn't matter to you it's okay but if you want sex she may not be the one.
Author danny12 Posted October 23, 2014 Author Posted October 23, 2014 If she isn't giving you sex now it is not going to get better. If you marry and have kids it will get worse. Couples who have alot of sex are sexually compatible and you and your girl are not. If sex doesn't matter to you it's okay but if you want sex she may not be the one. Thank you! But does not answer my question really! And I don't think I don't mind lol
Gaeta Posted October 23, 2014 Posted October 23, 2014 Danny: too many variables to answer your question. We are all individuals with individual needs. It depends if you are sexually compatible on all levels, and that you will only know once you are intimate. Too early for you to start worrying about when your sexual needs with come down. Usually in new relationships people have lots of sex and it last months even years. It will slow down a little (or a lot depending) when life responsibilities are piling up like work, mortgage, kids. You are light years away from those responsibilities.
Lani Posted October 23, 2014 Posted October 23, 2014 Will the answer change whether or not you have sex? I'm guessing no. Sexual compatibility is important, but there is no way of knowing whether or not you are compatible with your partner until you're 'doing it'. So just go for it, and you'll get your answers in time.
somedude81 Posted October 23, 2014 Posted October 23, 2014 Why did you make this thread again? This is the third time. Just have sex with her and find out. 1
Author danny12 Posted October 23, 2014 Author Posted October 23, 2014 Why did you make this thread again? This is the third time. Just have sex with her and find out. No this is a different question...
Pyro Posted October 23, 2014 Posted October 23, 2014 Why did you make this thread again? This is the third time. The irony...... 3
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