Koans Posted October 22, 2014 Posted October 22, 2014 Typical story: Pretty much like a gigs description of a break up and blames me for everything while rebounding in 3 days. Post Break up *fast forward* 5 months later. She tries to add me on social media with no mature communication. No friend zones here. *back and forth hate emails* eventually we got on the phone. Shared a few laughs and talks of reconciliation. What I got from it is if we communicate about the break up, she goes silent. If I don't, she responds. I also came to the conclusion she is extremely passive aggressive. Something I did not catch. I don't know why. 3 yrs deep btw. I sent a message saying. Don't add me, message me, or text me. Call me and only call me when you're serious. *3 months later* She adds my friend on IG but he tells me about it after figuring out who she is. This particular friend is not a mutual friend between me and her. But he knows of her. As she does too because my friend is a semi-popular artist on youtube. I told him to block. He did. And I followed it with myself blocking her. I don't feel the need to lift the block coz my reasoning is, if you didn't want to do anything with me. You wouldnt "infiltrate the team". If you were thinking of me, you would get at me. If you are serious. You got my #. For the mean time, stop snooping through my **** when you're the one who told me to move on. What are your thoughts? I don't really want to here the "move on" lines coz that's what im obviously trying to do. What do you make of her actions. One thing someone wise told me, "people mature but they don't change".
johnson_j Posted October 22, 2014 Posted October 22, 2014 Her actions are immature and nothing more than to let you know she is keeping tabs on you. But she doesn't want a full-scale reconciliation yet, presumably because she is out with other men and wants to "cake eat". you're doing the right things bro. You already know why she's doing this.
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