NJ123 Posted October 23, 2014 Posted October 23, 2014 Hmm yea but the thing is I'm not looking for rls atm. When I met him I was looking for some action and I'm happy to casually date him if he wants. And he did initiate to go on date this weekend actually. And I dont agree about being slutty. I have respect for myself and for anyone who knows what they want and goes for what they want. And for Tinder, imagine so many people on there and how easy it is to get a match, its hard to take it seriously. I have no prob getting with guys IRL, and I do have many interests going on atm so I have many options, with each guy I do have a category for and I behave accordingly. It doesn't reflect anything about rls material or not. Or maybe It's just a phase in life I guess haha U know, people can always lie about their history, especially from tinder, and mostly their behaviours follow ur intention as well. But why would you lie about your history from Tinder? Makes it seem like it would be something your not proud of doing. Women give out their numbers like candy on there as well as sex. I've had a woman claim she thought one night stands were lame than said a little after I can stay over at her place lol. I'm just like uhhh no thanks lol. I could easily get sex off there if I wanted to, but I just choose not to.
Author IronZ Posted October 23, 2014 Author Posted October 23, 2014 But I really hope you dont take it so seriously like that, like dont invest too much on someone u havent yet met. Cuz now its more about u than about her u know. So its not good start. Maybe she has had another match with another guy in the meantime? Actually guilty as charged, i did this before. I just lost interest, wasnt in the mood anymore and then the guy kept bombarding me with messages, like LOTS! Not one guy but like 2 guys, then on FB as well. And I found it very unattractive. So it made it even worse when i sensed his anxiety/low selfesteem/ insecurity! I think you should move on I am moving on don't worry. Sucks that it had to happen, especially from someone who seemed genuine at first. But you know, sh*t happens. And just so you don't get this insecure/unattractive vibe out of me, I'm actually not a bad looking guy. I work out a lot and am in good shape. I play guitar/sing in a band, I have a Master's degree, I'm starting a very well paying job soon, I'm pretty worldly and have traveled and lived all over the world. I'm very nice, funny, witty, charming, a gentleman, and I can make people laugh.I have a lot to offer. She isn't deserving of any of this. I'll find someone worthy of my time. Her loss. 1
fatfish Posted October 23, 2014 Posted October 23, 2014 I think I'm dealing with a girl that is doing the same thing you described. She hasn't responded to my last 2 texts for almost a week now, but she keeps sending me snapchats of herself and what shes doing. Like, if you aren't interested anymore why keep sending me ****? And if you are still interested, why not text me back? Sorry this might hurt but trust me she's not interested.. She knows you fancy her so she sends u snapchat knowing u like it and it makes her feel good about herself, it has nothign to do with her interest in you. If a girl is interested in u she will reply to your text. But there might be weird cases so u prob would like to try reaching out once more time in text and see how it goes? if she still doesn't reply or show little interest, shes prob a narcissistic bitch like any others lol cuz.. guilty as charged, i did it before. Went on date with this guy, he totally fancied me, saying im hot all the time and yes im quite flattered but i didnt like him so i turned him down saying im not ready for rls, after that he still texted me like whatsapp fb blah and i didnt reply but now and then still sent snapchat cuz i knew he would compliment me (but now i stopped anyway lol) so.. u know my advice is to give it once last try, see how it goes otherwise move on!
fatfish Posted October 23, 2014 Posted October 23, 2014 I am moving on don't worry. Sucks that it had to happen, especially from someone who seemed genuine at first. But you know, sh*t happens. And just so you don't get this insecure/unattractive vibe out of me, I'm actually not a bad looking guy. I work out a lot and am in good shape. I play guitar/sing in a band, I have a Master's degree, I'm starting a very well paying job soon, I'm pretty worldly and have traveled and lived all over the world. I'm very nice, funny, witty, charming, a gentleman, and I can make people laugh.I have a lot to offer. She isn't deserving of any of this. I'll find someone worthy of my time. Her loss. Yes I'm sure you are So how about next time try picking up some girl IRL? like at a coffee shop or something? The other day I just did it with a cute guy I spotted haha I knew he paid attention to me then he smiled at me, after that I just asked him if I could take the available chair opposite him, then we sat tgt, then when he asked to watch over his stuff to go toilet, I actually put my numb on his paper work with a smiley face haha but then we did actually chat casually and add on fb lol then today he found out the number and said it put a smile on his face hahaha Maybe give it a shot when u spot a cute girl next time
Author IronZ Posted October 23, 2014 Author Posted October 23, 2014 Yes I'm sure you are So how about next time try picking up some girl IRL? like at a coffee shop or something? The other day I just did it with a cute guy I spotted haha I knew he paid attention to me then he smiled at me, after that I just asked him if I could take the available chair opposite him, then we sat tgt, then when he asked to watch over his stuff to go toilet, I actually put my numb on his paper work with a smiley face haha but then we did actually chat casually and add on fb lol then today he found out the number and said it put a smile on his face hahaha Maybe give it a shot when u spot a cute girl next time lol I wish I could spot opportunities like that. I don't spend a lot of time in coffee shops but I notice people who go there are usually with friends/family or significant others. It's rare to see a cute girl just sitting by herself. I know what you mean though I should put myself out there more in real life. It is tough though. I'm trying OKCupid right now maybe that'll lead to something good.
InsaneTrombone Posted October 23, 2014 Posted October 23, 2014 Sorry this might hurt but trust me she's not interested.. She knows you fancy her so she sends u snapchat knowing u like it and it makes her feel good about herself, it has nothign to do with her interest in you. If a girl is interested in u she will reply to your text. But there might be weird cases so u prob would like to try reaching out once more time in text and see how it goes? if she still doesn't reply or show little interest, shes prob a narcissistic bitch like any others lol cuz.. guilty as charged, i did it before. Went on date with this guy, he totally fancied me, saying im hot all the time and yes im quite flattered but i didnt like him so i turned him down saying im not ready for rls, after that he still texted me like whatsapp fb blah and i didnt reply but now and then still sent snapchat cuz i knew he would compliment me (but now i stopped anyway lol) so.. u know my advice is to give it once last try, see how it goes otherwise move on! How about a phone call? I haven't ever been all over her, calling her hot and amazing etc. She has literally just sent me 10+ pictures of her and stuff shes doing and I haven't said anything to her at all lol. I'll probably phone her later this week and if she picks up, we'll see. If she doesn't pick up, I might send her a special snapchat and delete her ol
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