Why did he text me this?

[Beautiful Kisses]

It's not about angry people, OP. This guy treated you horribly. YOU draw the line there. Yet, you keep wanting to find explanations for his actions and his words. It doesn't matter anymore because whatever he says or does isn't coming from a place that is in your best interest. Even if we could all pinpoint WHY he said what he said, does that change the fact that you need to move on from him? No. You're focusing on what bears no meaning anymore.

 

I DO NOT talk to him anymore lol. I was just asking a simple qquestion about something that was new to me. I never had a guy say something like that to me. NEVERMIND everyone Forget this post. .

[Zahara]

I DO NOT talk to him anymore lol. I was just asking a simple qquestion about something that was new to me. I never had a guy say something like that to me. NEVERMIND everyone Forget this post. .

 

Whether it is new to you, you understand it is coming from a negative place. Yes? You have to at least know that and if you know that, you will realize that there is no reason to understand why but just delete and move on. Creating numerous threads about it leaves you attached and affected by him. Just delete and forget it.

[KatZee]

I DO NOT talk to him anymore lol. I was just asking a simple qquestion about something that was new to me. I never had a guy say something like that to me. NEVERMIND everyone Forget this post. .

 

Honestly, for you, you may as well still be talking to this guy. You've created tons of threads about this idiot. Receiving texts, analyzing, over analyzing, and making thread after thread is probably even worse than if you still talked to him, because now, your mind is going nuts and inventing things, being curious, blah blah blah.

 

Block his number.

 

All I did was read your thread title and I couldn't stop from thinking how stupid he sounded. Hot and cold, a player, saying things like "You need a spanking" he sounds disgusting.

 

Hot and cold guys are emotional vampires. They never want anything serious with you, they just want you on THEIR terms. When they're horny, when they're bored, when they're lonely. Him going cold and then coming back around hot doesn't mean he's into you. It means he's one of those three scenarios above.

 

End the cycle and block his number. Then you won't be "shocked" every single time he texts you some random garbage.

[preraph]

Call your phone manufacturer and ask them how to block his texts.