SarahJames Posted October 21, 2014 Posted October 21, 2014 I started talking to this guy on match. Things were going well for 2 days in terms of the conversation. Then, we started talking about his work, and he said he'd talk to me later because he's currently at a dinner. Well....it's the next day and I see that he's been active on the site, but he hasn't messaged me at all. What's the deal? Is he not interested? I thought things were going well...It's driving me crazy contemplating whether or not he'll text me...Any advice is appreciated
Chemist Posted October 21, 2014 Posted October 21, 2014 I started talking to this guy on match. Things were going well for 2 days in terms of the conversation. Then, we started talking about his work, and he said he'd talk to me later because he's currently at a dinner. Well....it's the next day and I see that he's been active on the site, but he hasn't messaged me at all. What's the deal? Is he not interested? I thought things were going well...It's driving me crazy contemplating whether or not he'll text me...Any advice is appreciated lols, I have some exp with OLD. Many times we have lots of messages going with girls because we really need to up the chances. A lot of girls will talk forever and not want to meet. Girls win the OLD race, I swear. He probably was answering someone else's message at the time.< also, he is probably going on dates with others too. Never think someone is dating just one person at a time, unless you ask to be exclusive. 1
Cam7 Posted October 21, 2014 Posted October 21, 2014 Sorry to say but this happens a lot. I've had what might appear as great conversion with a girl and I just for whatever reason lose interest. Usually if my interest level wasn't that high to begin with. Also after that amount of time I try for number and date, then proceed to tone down the messaging. I'm assuming he hasn't done that. Probably the best thing to do is nothing. Wait for a reply and talk to other people.
PegNosePete Posted October 21, 2014 Posted October 21, 2014 Could be any one of a million things. - He got bored or lost interest in you - Decided you weren't a good match after all - Had lied about his work and didn't want to get busted - Got a better offer - His ex called him up and begged for forgiveness - His parole officer told him to stop talking to you - His wife caught him - Abducted by aliens 2
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