I still have strong feels for this girl and I m not sure if I should do anything

[you_can_not_see_me]

Months ago I met a girl and I felt like there was intense mutual attraction between us. I dragged my feet quite a bit until I finally asked her out and when I did she said she liked me as well but that she was already seeing someone.

 

I wanted to suck it up and be cool with her after that, but even though she tried to remain friendly and even seemed a little sad about the whole situation, I couldn't help brooding and being cold around her.

 

a Few months passed with zero contact, then I unexpectedly ran into her and got a warm and enthusiastic greeting from her but my own response was lukewarm cause I still felt a little hurt by her rejection months ago. I got the sense that my lack of enthusiasm upset her a bit as her smile faded and we parted ways rather quickly instead of really catching up.

 

I tried to forget about her, but I keep thinking of her again every once in a while and I saw her again today, but this time we just looked at each other a little from a distance and continued on our way. It probably didn't helped that I instinctively frowned when I saw her.

 

I can't lie to myself I still like this girl and this will gnaw at me if I don't do something about it. I know by this point where and when I can find her again, but she will know I waited for her there if I do try to meet her there, and I am not even sure its a good idea to try and see her again.

would appreciate some words of wisdom.

Edited October 21, 2014 by you_can_not_see_me

[Gaeta]

What do you have to lose? If you like something-someone then go for it. You have one life to live don't live it in regrets.