emotionsmessmeup Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 I am having urges... No I wont do anything.. But guys....Give me a helping hand.. Please.. I am fine..Just that.. I am feeling weak..oh I wnt do anything...but I am feeling low..and weak
NTB Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 i don't know what you are thinking about but DON"T DO IT and if it is about breaking NC please don't do it i did and i am in misery for it today
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted March 11, 2005 Author Posted March 11, 2005 I wont break the NC. I just need to know this will get better..
blind_otter Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 It does. Grieving takes time. You have to let it go and stop thinking about it all the time. Distract yourself. Get rid of everything that reminds you of your ex. Hang out with friends, do things you want to do. It will get better.
NTB Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 don't break nc i would say it gets better but i am in a s*** hole today and really not the best person to say. but don't do anything just talk to some friends and it's friday have some fun
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted March 11, 2005 Author Posted March 11, 2005 yea... we'll be fine.. we will be out of this and breathe fresh happy air...
beejsea2 Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 You'll be fine...just don't break NC!! Some days are hard...I even still have "bad" days.
NTB Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 bad day is an under statement today is like the first but worse
WhereSpiritsRoam Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 Originally posted by beejsea2 You'll be fine...just don't break NC!! Some days are hard...I even still have "bad" days. Yeah, breaking NC will set you back even further. Try and stay strong.
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted March 11, 2005 Author Posted March 11, 2005 guys..i have a question.. just pondering..will this man have the nerve to cntact me again? ususally...if i stopped chasing him n all..he wud call me..every 2-3-4 days...just to see how i am doing and if i wudnt pick up..call again n again.. do u think he'll call again?
NTB Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 he might who knows if he is evil he will but don't pick up........ sorry about the evil part just right about know i am thinking my ex is evil
beejsea2 Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 EMM I think you need to stop worry about will he call. For the first month after my ex left that's all I could think about!! Now I know he won't call. I think you need to just take care of yourself and if he calls he will but don't get your hopes up that he will otherwise it will be very painful!
creativegeek Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 Originally posted by beejsea2 You'll be fine...just don't break NC!! Some days are hard...I even still have "bad" days. Forgive me, I am new...what does "NC" mean?
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted March 11, 2005 Author Posted March 11, 2005 welcome to loveshack creative - nc means no contact search for the lost guide to no contact...
ww Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 One day you will wake up and a morning rain will wash away the pain...just like that trust me!
haywood Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 you know what helped me get over my ex's. i wrote them a letter. write down everything. how you feel and what you're thinking. anything and everthing. but here's the thing. after you're done. just read it over a couple of times. keep it for a while. whenever you feel low, just read it. add on if you'd like. the thing is you don't send it. throw it away if you want to. it creates closure. give it a try.
greenhorn Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 Originally posted by haywood you know what helped me get over my ex's. i wrote them a letter. write down everything. how you feel and what you're thinking. anything and everthing. but here's the thing. after you're done. just read it over a couple of times. keep it for a while. whenever you feel low, just read it. add on if you'd like. the thing is you don't send it. throw it away if you want to. it creates closure. give it a try. LOl after posting so much on LS I am thinking of writing a book on my whole story and I think if I can dramatise it a bit it would be a best-seller
westernxer Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 from haywood the thing is you don't send it I was a semi-recent recipient of one of those closure letters... really pissed me off. I've also been guilty of sending them, too... when I was young and foolish. Guess I had it coming.
greenhorn Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 Originally posted by emotionsmessmeup 37 hours now! Lol EMMU ...keep walking... Yesterday I had slept .it was 1 am here
prayformydownfall Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 get urself out the breaking forum and into the coping forum!!! change ur name to soemthin more positive and dont ever turn back!!! iv had my nc broke a few times by the ex, it hurts but i jus cut the conversation dead now b4 it starts! the best thing i ever did was change my mobile number, i know its hassle but i always know wen i recieve a msg that its never her and it gives me a sense of closure!!! keep your head up, walk on, u can do it!!! ur special and it takes strength but its made me unbreakable and ever since i accepted that every problem i have had, i attacked it with so much passion that its made me an amazing person!!! u will get there!! PFMD!!
greenhorn Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 PFMD , you also change your name to some positive one.it helps...
prayformydownfall Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 Originally posted by greenhorn PFMD , you also change your name to some positive one.it helps... lol even tho it doesnt sound so, it is actually positive to me!!!! in the sense that u can pray and pray for my downfall, but i'm strong so even if i slip i'll still get back up!!
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