Tara27 Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 I have been dating my BF for about 3 months..Is it normal that he would go over one of his friends house for dinner (w/out me) who happens to be a female, I have not met her yet.and my BF has known her 15 years, and she just recently got dumped by her BF...Do I hAve a reason to be upset about this???or am I being paranoid??? He also may sleep at her apartment because he has another job which is far away from his home and its close to her house house...do u think that is acceptable??? any advice????
WhereSpiritsRoam Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 It's only acceptable if you trust him and can be sure that nothing will happen. Do you have any reason to doubt him? If this is something that bothers you, I would definitely discuss it with him. I would guess if it's a friend of 15 years, it's probably purely platonic. But again, just get clarification from him if you are unsure. Good luck. Spirits
Merin Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 While I'm all okay with my BF having female friends.. and even if he had dinner at one of his friends homes that happend to be a female that he's known for awhile without me.. I guess I would figure that he's known her for 15 years and they never hooked up (that you/I/we LOL know of) that it isn't going to happen... BUT IF my BF was going to be staying over night at a womans home that he's known forever it had betta be his Mommys house! LOL Noooooooooo I don't care if he works across the street from this girls house he needs to go home!
Pendawn Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 I think there is trust and there is discomfort. I often wonder if guys ever actually THInk about these things. eg my ex shared apartments with girls and I had no problem with that. But when he was working away, staying a hotel, a female friend of his went to visit him and stayed with him, sleeping in the same bed as him. I was not pleased, Ex couldn't understand it. I did not think anything sexual went on between them I was just upset he'd share something I saw as an intimate thing for US to share - sleeping in bed together - he shared with someone else.
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