jhb0272 Posted October 20, 2014 Posted October 20, 2014 My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months. We have known each other for 20 + years. He always wanted to date but we were always just friends. I actually introduced him to my roomate all those years ago and they ended up getting married. We lost contact because she was very insecure about our friendship. We saw each other about a year ago and he told me he was separating from his wife. We started hanging out as friends, and started dating a few months after he was divorced. He is my soulmate and love of my life. We have made future plans and talked about spending forever together. I have not spent any time with his two kids, because his 13 yr old was not happy about me being in the picture. His ex wife has convinced their son that he left her for me which is NOT true. Today he called me after several days of no contact (I let it go because he had his boys and I don't interfere with their time together) and ended our relationship. He said he and his son had a heart to heart and his son will never accept us being together and he feels like he needs to do what is best for him. I respect that however, I am now completely devastated and lost. Any suggestions ??????
GoBlue Posted October 22, 2014 Posted October 22, 2014 I am sorry, jhb0272, for the heartache. Breakups are never easy when your heart has been given away, but relationships are held between two willing participants. Mourning the loss is absolutely necessary, but moving on by honoring his request is just as essential. If he truly broke-off the relationship because of his son, who knows where that will lead in the future. I am praying that you will guard your heart and find healing as well. One day at a time is the only way I know how to make it through heart-break.
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