RN14 Posted October 20, 2014 Posted October 20, 2014 Been seeing this new guy. We've been talking for almost a month now and been on 3 dates. Right before we were suppose to hang out for the 4th time, he texted me saying he wanted to still hang out but he did not want something serious just casual because of his life. He mentioned maybe seeing other girls if the opportunity arose and he did not have a lot of time to hang out. I understand the whole casual concept but usually I hear that line after we've been seeing each other for awhile and slept together. And it usually means there will never be a future here, leave me alone. I mentioned this to him and he said "I said I'm not looking for anything serious right now.. I like you and attracted to you but I didn't want to lead you on." He also said he didn't know me well enough yet to know about a future. P and I actually have never slept together. It actually took him 3 dates to kiss me, which he said he gets nervous about that stuff. I asked if he only wanted sex from me and he was offended and told me he didn't have any other motives. I guess I am confused. I feel like he may have freaked out and jumped the gun because I thought we were casual at this point and dating others. It takes time to become serious. We are still talking. Of course my guard is up because he opened a can of worms but I am trying to gauge how to approach the situation. I like him and I have fun with him. Any thoughts on the situation? Is this probably a dead-end type relationship?
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