lleal Posted October 20, 2014 Posted October 20, 2014 I met this British man on a dating website about a month ago. Within a week after meeting on the site we met up. I would say we had a great connection and he's the first person, in a long time who has intellectually sparked my interest. We have profound conversations which with other men I have not had. He tells me about his daughter who still lives in England, the universe, his international trips, etc. We also have a few things in common, we both work in the same district, he lives 10 minutes from me, and he moved from London a year and a half ago and moved from Kentucky around that same time to Florida. On a side note, I find him very attractive and I love his accent. Here's the downside: he's not over his ex-girlfriend whom he still works with. He told me that he lived with her and that being that she was 25, she kicked him out because she needed space and wanted freedom. He has even told me that he's still in that funk. As much as I like him, I told him I'd listen to him whenever he needs it and offered to give him advice to help him back together. Anyway, we've gone on about 6-7 dates and we've never kissed. Yet, on each if these friendly meet ups he's already planning a future get together. In fact, he suggested we go on a weekend getaway to DC sometime in December. I remain hopeful something will happen. Anyway, I'm female/Latina/29 years old. He's English/32 years old. I feel I'm ready for a relationship at this point of my life because I'd like to settle and within the next year(s) start a family. Should I move on and find another guy or wait in hopes of getting out of this friend zone?
d0nnivain Posted October 20, 2014 Posted October 20, 2014 You aren't in the friend zone; that's something women generally do to men. You are at most the rebound girl. You know he's hung up on another woman. You can't magically make him snap out of that.
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