ReluctantRomeo Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 Originally posted by WithOrWithoutYou I don't know. I think most guys really take pride in giving their GF/Wife/SO pleasure in bed. I know I do, and always have. Maybe I am different than most guys, but I enjoy the foreplay and afterplay, giving her pleasure, just as much as the sex itself. Actually, I think a lot of us are like this ). It really excites me when ReluctantJuliette gets off. I can't understand your bf's behaviour, Babybear. There have been a lot of good suggestions. Like, he should make you come first, before you move on to him. For starters, this is the time when he is gonna be most motivated
life loser Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 being a loser in bed myself (no one ever even held my hand or kissed me until I was 21, and even then I just lay in bed not doing anything but thinking how nice it was to benext to someone) maybe you need to think about his mindset/history/etc. sex might not be the problem, maybe his emotions are the problem. go see someone with him and then let him go by himself - my first girlfirnd did (she said I sucked at sex too) and it was thes best thing she could have ever done for me. remeber, not all men are born natural aggressive testosterone driven animals that screw like wild hyenas...some are more timid, shy and embarrsed about it all than most women are good luck, and if it doesn't work, what's wrong with using a vibrator yourself -relationships are about a wholot lot more than screaming orgasms every night
ReluctantRomeo Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 Originally posted by life loser remeber, not all men are born natural aggressive testosterone driven animals that screw like wild hyenas... Speak for yourself! good luck, and if it doesn't work, what's wrong with using a vibrator yourself -relationships are about a wholot lot more than screaming orgasms every night Yeah, but that *is* half the fun
life loser Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 ...and besides, what's wrong with sucking in bed?
MsMree Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 if a man is that selfish in bed, he'll be selfish everywhere else - EVENTUALLY. So not only would you be gett'g yourself off aft. sex, but in actuality you will be taking care of you no matter what (emotionally, etc.) Is that what you want??
blind_otter Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 Originally posted by life loser ...and besides, what's wrong with sucking in bed? You're kidding right?? It's about taking pride in yourself and your ability to please your partner - it's about caring enough about them to take them to the edge of ecstasy, by learning how and what to do and everything you can to make that person happy....that should make you happy, too!
WhereSpiritsRoam Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 Originally posted by blind_otter You're kidding right?? It's about taking pride in yourself and your ability to please your partner - it's about caring enough about them to take them to the edge of ecstasy, by learning how and what to do and everything you can to make that person happy....that should make you happy, too! This is true if sex is an important element for at least one partner in a relationship. If neither partner really cares about it, they are probably fine with subpar performances. A friend of mine and his girlfriend don't really care about it that much and are more than happy just fooling around to fill the void.
WithOrWithoutYou Posted March 15, 2005 Posted March 15, 2005 Originally posted by life loser ...and besides, what's wrong with sucking in bed? Nice play on words. I think the key difference here, is between sucking in a good way, and sucking in a bad way.
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