fatfish Posted October 20, 2014 Posted October 20, 2014 (edited) So, I was bored and got on Tinder. Let's say I'm solidly attractive, got match with a guy who's also solidly attractive. It was a Friday night and I wanted some action. So I messaged him first. turned out he was only in town for a night to see a band. He asked me to go with him but tickets were sold out. So we said we could meet later. We exchanged numbers. He asked me to follow him on Instagram. He followed me back. This guy is popular on instagram, very handsome, hot body, totally my type. I was pretty excited as I didnt really reply to any guy on Tinder and actually had never met anyone before him either. He was so cool on text, not too strong but flirty enough. Complimented me using winky face. Later that night he texted me on Whatsapp asking me where I was. I was at another party, having a good time but of course no guy made me as excited as meeting this hot guy. I told him to add me on snapchat cuz he was sending me a vid of his party on whatsapp. So by 4, I got back to my place and he said he was on his way to my place. Then we met. He was really hot. We quickly introduced ourselves and had sex. Then we cuddled as we were both tired. He held me in his arms and his feet rubbed mine whenever they met. Aw. His voice was super husky and I swear I could have orgasm just by listening to it. I told him to stay quiet as my flatmates could hear it. He made jokes even trying to bang on the wall. Then my phone got several texts from dudes throughout the nights and he kept asking if i had a boyfriend every time a text popped up on the lock screen. I found it pretty sweet. In the morning we had sex again, then cuddled. At about 12 he woke up and we kissed again then he left. Even winked. So handsome. Then on late Sunday, he texted me saying it was him I snapchatted. I said he didn't add me. So basically it was a mistake and then he added my correct id. We talked bit. Blah. I asked him if he came around here often. He said yea sometimes smiley face. I told him I'd love to see him again. He asked me how long I would be staying here. I told him long enough. He told me he would let me know if he came around winky face After that we didnt really contact except that he liked my insta pics now and then. I snapchatted him at weekends a hot pic of me and then earlier tonight asked him whats up, he replied, just chilling, i joked, come back to bed quickly winky face, he said, not tonight but i will come later this week winky face, then i said, quick quick bed missing you winky face. Really didnt expect to see him so soon, its like just been a week So it's like that. I fancy him. And I do want to hook up with him. I don't really want relationship but I do adore him and I might want to be casually dating him. But if not I don't really mind since he's not in my town anyway. What do you think? Am I heading for disaster? Edited October 20, 2014 by fatfish
avintagegirl Posted October 20, 2014 Posted October 20, 2014 You are only heading for disaster if you are wanting to receive more than he is wiling to give. If I were you I'd keep expectations very low. If you see him great, but brace yourself for not. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted October 20, 2014 Posted October 20, 2014 Yes, I think you are headed for disaster if you're looking for more than a hook-up. He sounds interested in sex and probably thinks you are, too. (ie. having sex on the first meeting) If you're cool with just a physical relationship, that's fine. But if not, I wouldn't consider him a candidate for a relationship. I wouldn't take his inquiry about you having a boyfriend as a sign of anything, beyond wanting to make sure he wasn't about to get his arse kicked for sleeping with someone else's girlfriend. Keep in mind you may well be one of many other girls he's talking to. 1
IronZ Posted October 20, 2014 Posted October 20, 2014 Jeez how come I never meet hot horny chicks like that.
Author fatfish Posted October 20, 2014 Author Posted October 20, 2014 Jeez how come I never meet hot horny chicks like that. lol u would if u are hot too 1
smackie9 Posted October 20, 2014 Posted October 20, 2014 Stop farkin around and tell him you are interested in a FWB and see what he says. I think he is more worried than you because A, you slept with him, not even knowing him, and B, guys are texting you all night. Most who would be in his position would think you are a skank and not dating material. 1
NJ123 Posted October 20, 2014 Posted October 20, 2014 (edited) You realize any decent looking girl on Tinder who swipes right will get matched with tons of guys. I bet if you did an experiment of keep swiping right you'd have around 200 matches per day. It's not the same for guys since girls are way more selective. I'm a guy & I can get around 10-15 matches per day if I'm on it for a awhile each day, but a girl would get 10x as many. Also, want to add Tinder is a hookup app. You have an extremely slim chance of getting any sort of relationship with anyone on there. It's mainly used for validation, plugging instagrams & for sex. From the sounds of it I wouldn't be surprised if this guy is hooking up with a different woman every single week. Edited October 20, 2014 by NJ123
IronZ Posted October 20, 2014 Posted October 20, 2014 lol u would if u are hot too Everyone has different opinions but I'd say I'm a pretty handsome guy. I work out and take care of my appearance. Still, it's not too often girls on Tinder will match up with you and call you over for some steamy sex. This guy just got lucky you're a freak and found him by sheer chance.
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