Dadubwa Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 God I posted this craaaaaaap before and omg...I can't believe just how much this is killing........... I cheated on my girlfriend this summer....and I love her.....I love my girlfriend.....it wasn't even like "full out cheating" it was holding hands and doing like 5 year old cuddeling.....but my girlfriend I think would consider that cheating..........I've been in and out of this whole cheating thing....and god......omg......I feel so bad for doing it....it's killing me....I love her more than anything......what the heck do I do to get over this!? I seriously am beating myself up over it.
Xerxes1986 Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 Originally posted by Dadubwa God I posted this craaaaaaap before and omg...I can't believe just how much this is killing........... I cheated on my girlfriend this summer....and I love her.....I love my girlfriend.....it wasn't even like "full out cheating" it was holding hands and doing like 5 year old cuddeling.....but my girlfriend I think would consider that cheating..........I've been in and out of this whole cheating thing....and god......omg......I feel so bad for doing it....it's killing me....I love her more than anything......what the heck do I do to get over this!? I seriously am beating myself up over it. tell her...if she doesn't want to be with yuou because of it than your better off...its better to be honest and open in relationships than harbor lies. she might even praise you for telling the truth to her because nothihng is worse than her finding out from someone else
Author Dadubwa Posted March 11, 2005 Author Posted March 11, 2005 the problem with that is that it was a "rumor" around the summer because the girl told my girlfriend........and I denied it.........she told me if I ever cheat on her......she would leave me............. the twisted thing.......was I was cheated on before and it hurt so bad...and I stayed with them......then I was cheated on again......I still stayed with them......and on the third time they cheated on me...I left....and the worst part of that.....is....the girl I cheated on my girlfriend with...is the one who cheated on me......she's me Ex.... My girlfriend and I keep nothing from each other....this is the ONLY thing I've kept from her...idk what to do....I know I don't want to tell her.
Xerxes1986 Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 Originally posted by Dadubwa the problem with that is that it was a "rumor" around the summer because the girl told my girlfriend........and I denied it.........she told me if I ever cheat on her......she would leave me............. the twisted thing.......was I was cheated on before and it hurt so bad...and I stayed with them......then I was cheated on again......I still stayed with them......and on the third time they cheated on me...I left....and the worst part of that.....is....the girl I cheated on my girlfriend with...is the one who cheated on me......she's me Ex.... My girlfriend and I keep nothing from each other....this is the ONLY thing I've kept from her...idk what to do....I know I don't want to tell her. you can do either of 2 things: 1) tell her and hope that the strength and love in your relationship with her will hold you together or 2)take it to your grave if you do 1, you will feel better about yourself and you won't have to lie to your girl, but if you do there is the chance she won't be able to forgive you personally if you don't think that she can forgive you for a mistake that you truley feel sorry about and regret ever doing, then she isn't worth your time anyway if you do 2, your relationship will probably shrivel up and die because this may seem like 1 little thing...but it will grow and fester inside of you and you will start lying about other things and it will be a vicious cycle.
Author Dadubwa Posted March 11, 2005 Author Posted March 11, 2005 ohhhhh you break it down nice and easy.......better said then done
Xerxes1986 Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 Originally posted by Dadubwa ohhhhh you break it down nice and easy.......better said then done i KNOW how that feels...you could go read about my pathetic life...then come tell me that urs is worse...lol ill switch you anyday
crazychick Posted March 11, 2005 Posted March 11, 2005 They say that telling someone that you have cheated on them is the most selfish thing that you can ever do. You would be doing it to make yourself feel better, but in the end hurting her more. You know what the end result is here, if you tell her, you will lose her. Because not only did you cheat, but you lied about it when asked and she chose to believe you.
Author Dadubwa Posted March 12, 2005 Author Posted March 12, 2005 lol.......... I would never switch my life.......I love my life sooooooooooo much........ I think we've gone to long for me to bring it back up.......it does seem selfish.....it makes sense.....I just wish WISH I never did it.....
greenhorn Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 Originally posted by Dadubwa lol.......... I would never switch my life.......I love my life sooooooooooo much........ I think we've gone to long for me to bring it back up.......it does seem selfish.....it makes sense.....I just wish WISH I never did it..... Just an off-track reply, I really find it commendable that you are accepting your guilt otherwise there are ppl in this world who would gleefully cheat and if you get to know about this , some justifications would be dished out to you and if you still feel bad you would be asked to walk out. I praise your consience.
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