LDN_7 Posted October 19, 2014 Posted October 19, 2014 So..... First post here, bit of a long one (I will try to keep it as short as possible) so bare with me. Girl at work, we work in different department, don’t really have any dealing with each other, the odd one here and there and my company has no issue with people dating as I know that question will be asked. It started about a year and a half ago, at the time she had a boyfriend so I instantly knew it wasn’t going to go anywhere, even though she had always said she was unhappy with her bf but she had told this to everyone she spoke to and always stayed with him so I never read too much into it. One day she starts chatting to me, then adds me on facebook, we swap numbers and started to chat a lot, txt’s turned into phone calls and we stated spending more time together at work, lunches ect. We went out a few times, Just as friends; I never saw it as more than that to start with because I am not one to go stealing other people’s girls. Over time we got closer and eventually we both backed off a bit as it was starting to become more than friends, she was getting jealous of me talking to other girl and it was all getting a bit confusing for the both of us. We had kissed a few times, all started by her (I know that don’t make it right) but nothing more. We were nowhere near a close for a few months and hardly even spoke; it was probably needed, after a bit we started chatting again but nothing like before. She’s now split with her boyfriend; it’s only been a couple of months. She keeps making comments about people thinking we are together and how she’s still jealous ect, we’ve been out on work drinks together but nothing on our own since her split, we were supposed to the other month but it never happened. Here’s my dilemma, She is a very flirty girl and I’m not the only guy she speaks to to that extent at work, she is like it with a lot of people but then again I also like a harmless flirt and I know it’s easy for people to read that wrong, tho I’m not sure if it’s all harmless from her. That said everyone who knows us thinks that we are made for each other and we will get together in the end. I am not stupid and can tell if there’s something there or not and there defiantly is from both of us. We are both really comfortable around her and I do really like her tho there are things I absolute hate, like the flirting txt’s to other guys ect. Tho I’m sure there’s something there because it’s obvious for everyone to see I’m not sure how interested she is, she has always said that if she broke with her boyfriend she would want some time before getting with anyone else and she’s sort of said the same thing recently that it’s only been a month or so. Tho I do think if it was going to happen between us and she was that interested it would have by now wouldn’t it? So is she interested or is it all just one big game for attention?
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