iam still here Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 hay guys just looking for some insite, Me and my ex of 12 years broke up 2 months ago and she started seeing someone 2 weeks after she told my kids that she is trying to make a new relationship work with this guy the first time thay asked if dad is coming home. A week or so later her and her new partner have a fight and she kicked him out she got him back and insisted he move in during this time i would ring to speak with the kids and she would end up getting on the line and confess she wasent coping and missed me dearly. she even asked if i could come over to there place to see her id agree and then the next morning i would get a message not to show up at her place this has happened around 4 times since the break up. she broke it off with me and is now saying she is still mad at me because i didnt make it work? she also said now she values her relationship with the new guy and wants me to just remain her friend she said she cant face me because she thinks ill be to hard to resist and may want to take me back she said her heart is saying one thing and her head says another i mean i want us back of course i belive in a stable home u know with both mum and dad but iam not sure whats going on in her head any advice would be great cheers
rawrrxlaurr Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 She sounds crazy. Sorry, but she really does. Make sure your kids are okay in that environment, and if all is well I would say move on.
Summerrose2013 Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 Have you suggested going to couples counselling? Just because she broke it off, doesn't mean she doesnt hold you responsible for the break up - men think they are doing great because they provide, go to work, etc etc, but the woman thinks she is neglected because she's stuck at home with 2 kids. You need to talk - somewhere away from home, neutral environment and certainly away from any other men (what is she thinking doing this to her kids!)
No Limit Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 She's projecting her issues on you. Facing you now means that her affair fog will be lifted, which in her case is pretty bad because the "greener side" turned out to be everything but green within a very short time. Keep your distance to her in any way you can. She's not moving on, she's actually developing back into... I don't even know how to describe it. Back to baby age I guess, only less rational. Just keep your kids safe from her crazyness.
No Limit Posted October 19, 2014 Posted October 19, 2014 Hard to read. Nonetheless, uhm, she's crazy. At best. Good thing she's her "boyfriends" problem now.
ComingInHot Posted October 19, 2014 Posted October 19, 2014 Well that was awkward huh? There's too much you don't know. There is too much you don't want to know. run
bathtub-row Posted October 19, 2014 Posted October 19, 2014 She's a nutcase, that's what I think. Stop playing into this head-game she's playing with you. Just ignore her pleas about wanting you back, meeting her bf, whatever. The one I feel most sorry for is this child who has to be around this head-case.
The Like Fairy Posted October 19, 2014 Posted October 19, 2014 Too much drama. Focus on your son and other children if you have others. They need you so much more than this disturbed 'adult' drama queen does. Your kids still have a chance in life but they need a stable present Father since their Mother is a mess. Focus on the kids, dont let her pull you into her drama whatsoever, and good luck.
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