Why do I feel like this?!?!

[AieshaR]

Hey guys,

 

So the other day I was hanging out with a few people and I found out that my ex had lied to me about how many girls he slept with. I feel like I've been so disrespected. We've been broken up for about 3 months now and dated for 2 years. At first we had NC. And I was so determined to never contact him again but then I found out that I had a miscarriage (I didn't even know I was pregnant), but I was only 4 weeks in. I figured I had to tell him so I called. He never even asked after that how my last drs app went or how I am. I see his comments on pictures of girls that I follow on Instagram and he tries to get their fb names and talk to them (I don't follow him). Mind you, he's almost 25 and still acting like a kid discovering boobs. It just pisses me off that he can go out of his way and comment on these girls pics but can't even ask how I am. Yes, I'm devastated about my miscarriage and I just wish I had someone I could open up to about it.

 

Part of me what's to rip his head off and part of me wants to never speak to him again.

 

Do I just get over him or try "seek" closure and answers from him?

Edited October 19, 2014 by AieshaR
Missed something out

[LoveIsMyReligion]

It's definitely tough to cut someone out of your life completely, especially after 2+ years together.

 

The problem is you're using your miscarriage to try and spark something between the two of you when he's made it clear that he isn't interested right now.

[AieshaR]

Just sucks he hasn't even asked how I am! But I guess I'm stronger than what I think I am! I have beautiful people around me that actually show they care:)

[LoveIsMyReligion]

It is tough and it definitely cuts deep when someone you care about shows little to no remorse.

 

The only advise I can give is to cut all contact. Every time you text, call, or send him a smoke signal you are giving yourself false hope.

 

It gets better just "move along" =)