loveman39284 Posted October 19, 2014 Posted October 19, 2014 Okay so there is a girl i work with.. we kept running into each other and the way she looked at me made me think she was interested. she gave me a couple opportunities to talk to her but i just froze up because of issues i have with myself. anyways someone i worked with knew i was interested in her so he told me he went up too her and told her that i wanted to talk to her. i did not get the chance to talk to her that day because she left before i had the chance to do it. so i went home, found her and messaged her on Facebook asking her if she wanted to go out too dinner. i know now that i read it back it sounds bad but i felt obligated too say something too her since he told me he said something. but come to find out he didn't say anything to her so i now i look like a complete ass. it sounds terrible when i actually write it out but whatever. do you guys think if i went up to her and said something it would make sense or have i lost my shot lol?
smackie9 Posted October 19, 2014 Posted October 19, 2014 Dude what do you think? It shows you have no confidence. I dunno if you lost your shot, but how about growing a set and redeem yourself by going up to her and asking her out proper. 1
preraph Posted October 19, 2014 Posted October 19, 2014 Well, just see if she texts back. If you end up going out, tell her you made the mistake of mentioning to your friend you were thinking of asking her out and he betrayed you and told you he let her know he was going to talk to her or that you wouldn't have asked her out by text. If you don't end up going out, well, at least you didn't get ditched face to face.
truth_seeker Posted October 19, 2014 Posted October 19, 2014 not creepy... just a little awkward but nothing to worry about. I would just tell her the truth in person. "So and so told me he talked to you and I felt I had to contact you after what he told me... I feel foolish because I wanted to do this in person." 1
IronZ Posted October 19, 2014 Posted October 19, 2014 You could still salvage this by talking to her in person when you see her at work again. You've already put yourself out there, so don't be shy about it anymore. Just be casual and go up to her. 1
Author loveman39284 Posted October 19, 2014 Author Posted October 19, 2014 alright cool.. thanks guys! some positivity in this, learned my lesson though.
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