Mcscooter Posted October 18, 2014 Posted October 18, 2014 Before you start reading, this isn't something you see everyday on Loveshack. There's this one young lady I really like. Our chemistry is amazing for what it is right now. We agree with many things, share common interest, and both are understanding. We've been talking for awhile. I finally came out and told her I always had a crush on her and she admitted to it as well. So we want to work things out. I'm deployed overseas at the moment, so I don't want to actually date her yet. If you guys can understand that type of situation. Anyways the catch.. I don't know if you guys believe in supernatural spirits, demons or whatever.. but awhile ago she messed with a Ouija board. She ended up having a spirit of a little girl attached to her and there's been stories. My friends who heavily believe these beliefs tell me it's bad juju to go messing around with someone who has such interest with this particular item. I can understand because I feel like i'm getting myself into a regrettable situation. I personally myself have experienced paranormal situations, next thing I need is a little girl following me around. That's just something to irritate me. At the same time i'm asking myself will it be worth it. Supernatural occurring are unexplained. It can simply do a lot to someone Now the question is. In this type of situation what should I do. Stay or go? What would you do or recommend. I'm really serious about this. Like I said I have experienced the paranormal before and it was unpleasant, it's something I try to avoid because it pisses me off. I really like her though, she's a catch Thoughts and opinions please
d0nnivain Posted October 18, 2014 Posted October 18, 2014 I don't believe the occult works that way. If you like the lady, date her when you come home after your tour. For now keep safe
Chemist Posted October 18, 2014 Posted October 18, 2014 hey man, I don't want to seem like I'm judging on your views or spoiling life's surprises, but that's just nonsensical. Ouija boards are bogus and there's no such thing as little spirit girls. Date the girl, drop the supernatural, and read harry potter for your fiction. 4
Author Mcscooter Posted October 18, 2014 Author Posted October 18, 2014 This is just the way I was raised and born, my mother told me to never touch a Ouija board because it's a portal for spirits or demons to come through. She really believed in it. It's been stressed down on me too. So if you can understand from my mindset. People who usually say it's nonsense have never experienced it in their field. Like I stated earlier I have credibility of paranormal phenomenal. Most likely I will end up dating her, because I honestly shouldn't let a little girl spirit ruin a relationship with much potential. I just want to hear what everyone has to say, most of my friends say it's bad juju. After being around and studying so many cultures around the world, bad juju is believable.
preraph Posted October 18, 2014 Posted October 18, 2014 Tell her she needs to move the little girl on. It's doing her no favor keeping her attached. She can get help doing that if need by from a medium. She can find the nearest paranormal society and attend a meeting and get a reference for a medium. A whole lot of those societies are only doing electronic ghost monitoring now, though, which won't be helpful and could cause more problems. Not everyone has paranormal experiences and anyone who hasn't had has absolutely no reason to think it's real. The chances of you experiencing her attachment aren't very good, but she needs to move her on and not maintain an unhealthy connection. And she needs to stop using Ouija boards and doing random calling of entities. She has surely watched enough paranormal tv programming to know the rules by now if she has this interest. The biggest danger here is that she doesn't have common sense and is randomly doing dangerous things for thrills. I separate these entities into two categories, ghosts and spirits. It's all a matter of semantics, but ghosts may wish to visit their old home or may be just remnants of energy is the way I think about them. If you invade their space, they don't like it. The most common voice phenomenon is "Get out." It's not much different than if you woke up to someone menacing you in the night and how you'd react. To me spirits are not the same as ghosts and more like helpful guides or what religious people would call angels or that sort of thing. I have experienced bad ghosts and good ghosts. I have only experienced helpful spirits. I haven't experienced demons, so I don't know what they are and don't want to. Someone being interested in the paranormal is no reason to dump them, but you can't expect someone who has no experiences to give it any credence at all. Until it happens to you, you'd be insane to believe it. Even after it happens to you, you struggle for other explanations. 2
GemmaUK Posted October 18, 2014 Posted October 18, 2014 If this is a red flag for you then avoid it. FTR I have had paranormal experiences myself as did my Mum and several family members. I'm neither open and welcoming nor closed and cynical of it. What bothers me more is that this seems to be your mother's opinion and not your own? What happened to you personally? Is this little girl nasty or just a little girl?
Haerts Posted October 18, 2014 Posted October 18, 2014 I'm not going to judge you because that's what you believe on, but if it's making you uncomfortable, why should you try to date her? That's your belief! However, first of all, I'd try it and see how it goes. You could be wrong, you know? But if you remain uncomfortable with the situation, then just move on. I believe in the zodiac signs and honestly, I think they're pretty accurate. For now, I wouldn't stop seeing someone just because their sign is incompatible with mine, but maybe in the future I would. And that's my choice. Follow your heart and everything will be fine. I would take a chance if I were in your shoes.
Author Mcscooter Posted October 18, 2014 Author Posted October 18, 2014 Apparently this little girl is nasty.. very.. It's also a cultural believe that supernatural beings exist. So my mother taught me, what she was taught, and I can say it's not a bad thing. She says the Ouija board is disrespectful because it disturbs the spiritual world. You shouldn't bother spirits unless you want them to bother you. Know what I'm saying?
lollipopspot Posted October 18, 2014 Posted October 18, 2014 Apparently this little girl is nasty.. very.. It's also a cultural believe that supernatural beings exist. So my mother taught me, what she was taught, and I can say it's not a bad thing. She says the Ouija board is disrespectful because it disturbs the spiritual world. You shouldn't bother spirits unless you want them to bother you. Know what I'm saying? Why doesn't your friend try to get rid of the girl then, if she believes in these things and thinks a nasty person is attached to her? There are people who specialize in that. Curious - are you from a Christian background or a more "new age" or spiritualist one?
CarrieT Posted October 18, 2014 Posted October 18, 2014 I am occultist (heck, look at my avatar!) and have been for 40+ years. I dabbled with Ouija about two decades ago and have more than extensive experience in this sort of thing. That said, I do not believe there is disrespect in "disturbing the spiritual world" in that when/if they want to punch through, they will do so. As for attaching themselves to living beings, I'm not as convinced. There is a whole thread on Ouija and you can read my experience here. When all is said and done, I believe it is possible to extricate yourself from beings that attach themselves to you with proper cleanings and rituals. As others are saying, if it makes you uncomfortable, than tell her and move on. Or, you can tell her it makes you uncomfortable and ask her about it; see if SHE is bothered by it, has plans to take care of the situation, or causes her problems. If she is handling a difficult situation well and has no other problems, why should it be a problem for you?
chimpanA-2-chimpanZ Posted October 18, 2014 Posted October 18, 2014 Do you want to date someone who believes she's being stalked by a vengeful little girl ghost she accidentally unleashed from a $14.99 hunk of plastic? 3
todreaminblue Posted October 18, 2014 Posted October 18, 2014 i took part in a seance once when i was a teen on a school excursion staying at jenolan caves in the blue mountains....it was the first and last seance i participated in....i wanted to speak to my grandpa ......didnt end up speaking to grandpa but i ended up scaring the living crap out of everyone because something came through.... no one slept that night.....one of the girls got really freaked out because she felt a touch and it wasnt friendly to her............she never bullied me again though i came to the realization not to mess with things i dont understand ....and just because you dont necessarily see something or someone...doesnt mean it isnt there......or they arent there.....i believe in ghosts/spirits because i have seen them.....my grandpa came to me in a dream after he died.....and still does..... this woman you want to date.....its really up to you whether you date her or not....if you dont feel comfortable with ouji boards and spiritism let her know..doesnt sound like she is into it as of now......its not something to mess around with honestly...pray for her.....and may god keep you safe on your deployment...best wishes......deb
Themanwithaplan Posted October 18, 2014 Posted October 18, 2014 C'mon man, this sounds crazy. I believe in metaphorical demons, in that people who can't deal with personal issues latch on to ideology that helps explain and rationalize their own endeavors. This girl sounds like trouble. A spirit of a little girl is latched on to her?! Wtf dude. HUGE red flag. Regardless of being raised to believe in this stuff, maybe you should re-evaluate your situation in regards to the "power of suggestion". If I was told by my mom while growing up that I had to worry about all these things, I probably would too. After all, parents are teachers, but we don't have to agree with everything they tell/teach us. You sound pretty young. 1
bubbaganoosh Posted October 19, 2014 Posted October 19, 2014 Played with one of those boards when i was in my early 20's. Question was asked if I would ever be a dad and got a no answer. If that game is so good, How come I have two kids and yes their mine. Also asked how long I would be married. Got something like 50 something. Try 16 and a half with two wives. Take that game and burn it because it's baloney.
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