Sweett Posted October 17, 2014 Posted October 17, 2014 Why do some guys blow hot and cold? Exchanged numbers and for about 2 weeks straight or more I got good morning texts and all these texts throughout the day then out of the blue it vanishes. So I started to text him initially and he would respond but the whole vibe did not seem the same. For some reason I feel like he has the attention span of a 5 year old meaning he's warm to someone new for a few weeks and then boom he's tired of them? He did make a statement once saying that I am feeling you today but I don't know about tomorrow and he had an LOL behind and said it was a joke but it honestly has stuck in my head especially with his behavior. Was I right to cut ties with him and delete his number? I'm looking for a relationship and I feel he is not if his attention span is that mini. this is a 39 year old guy.
ExpatInItaly Posted October 17, 2014 Posted October 17, 2014 He's probably texting other women, too. I'd move on. 2
Brooke02 Posted October 17, 2014 Posted October 17, 2014 He lost interest. I wouldn't text him anymore, in fact if he texts you I'd not respond. See how he reacts, that will be your answer. 1
Author Sweett Posted October 18, 2014 Author Posted October 18, 2014 He's probably texting other women, too. I'd move on. Yeah i guess i should have known better especially after he sent me a pic of him in only his underwear! I'm like whats that for and i made it clear after that that i was looking for a relationship not just some sex and i was not about to have h at my house when i barely know him... So maybe thats why he changed..,who knows
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted October 18, 2014 Posted October 18, 2014 Yeah i guess i should have known better especially after he sent me a pic of him in only his underwear! Careful on how you stated that... As if you were expecting a good nudey. MWHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! You answered your own Q at the end of your last reply. He was interested in the sexual side of you. At least you did right by allowing him to show his true colors. The right guy will never abruptly fade in such a way. There is nothing wrong with you, as you done yourself right. 2
Author Sweett Posted October 18, 2014 Author Posted October 18, 2014 Careful on how you stated that... As if you were expecting a good nudey. MWHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! You answered your own Q at the end of your last reply. He was interested in the sexual side of you. At least you did right by allowing him to show his true colors. The right guy will never abruptly fade in such a way. There is nothing wrong with you, as you done yourself right. I think u are right. I just hate when guys do that. Now that i'm thinking about all of this and picking it apart he said something else that i have never heard a guy say so early. About a week after we exchanged number and had been texting and talking he asked do i think about him throughout the day. I felt like i was being put on the spot and im thinking to myself how do i answer this when i barely know him and what was i supposed to be thinking about.
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted October 18, 2014 Posted October 18, 2014 I think u are right. I just hate when guys do that. Now that i'm thinking about all of this and picking it apart he said something else that i have never heard a guy say so early. About a week after we exchanged number and had been texting and talking he asked do i think about him throughout the day. I felt like i was being put on the spot and im thinking to myself how do i answer this when i barely know him and what was i supposed to be thinking about. Well, as long as you keep grounded on making sure you feel good through a relationship without having to change your pace or ways, you'll see things proper. If anything don't feel what you say or do will end a relationship... as the guy who seems interested will either ask why in interest, or loose interest. You don't want a guy who pretends to be interested. Hope your next relationship goes better for you. 2
Author Sweett Posted October 18, 2014 Author Posted October 18, 2014 If anything don't feel what you say or do will end a relationship... as the guy who seems interested will either ask why in interest, or loose interest. You don't want a guy who pretends to be interested.. This is very true! Thanks for your post.
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