GoodmanBrown Posted October 17, 2014 Posted October 17, 2014 Hi guys, I was hoping you guys could help me with this situation. I'm currently a student in College and I've never really had any experience with girls throughout high school. Anyway, today I got a first date with this girl I really like, and she likes me too. The date went pretty well actually, we had plenty of good conversation and we were both feeling each other. She also gave me plenty of times to make a move but I was kinda nervous mostly because off my inexperience. Well, finally as I walked her home I just kissed her. It was the first time I'd really kissed a girl before and I sucked, and didn't know how to at all. I could feel the awkwardness of the kiss and it just didn't go well and I turned around disappointed. She grabbed my head and turned me around and kissed me and we tried a second time but I was hesitating with my kisses and it just didn't feel right. I walked her home and it didn't really end well and didn't give her a hug or kiss goodbye. My question is, did I mess it up? The rest of the night went really well and we really clicked, but my inexperience killed me. I really like this girl and she likes (or liked) me too. Anybody know how I get better at kissing, and also is having a date go well but end with a bad kiss terrible? Do you guys think I still have a chance? Thanks! 1
mightycpa Posted October 17, 2014 Posted October 17, 2014 Yes, I have a few suggestions: 1) stop being such a worry wart. your first sucky kiss interested her enough to kiss you back 2) stop being such a worry wart. your second sucky kiss interested her enough to have a great time on your date 3) stop being such a worry wart. girls love a little vulnerability, as long as it is mixed together with balls of steel. So, I'd suggest this: find a good time on your next date to sit down, and look her straight in the eyes. reach down and hold both of her hands, one in each of your hands. tell her that you really enjoyed your kisses the other night, but you're not sure that you are the best kisser in the world, and that she is an awesome kisser tell her that you'd really like to be the best kisser in the world FOR HER and then ask if it would be all right if she would help you practice until you get it right then kiss her some more, and I'm sure you'll figure it out 4
Yookie Posted October 17, 2014 Posted October 17, 2014 3) stop being such a worry wart. girls love a little vulnerability, as long as it is mixed together with balls of steel. This! ALL DAY LONG!!! Good advice here!
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