Quokka Posted October 16, 2014 Posted October 16, 2014 This girl and I had a small thing over the Summer. But here's the catch, she's been in and out of the same relationship for years and she broke up with her ex 2 weeks before we started talking and she told me liked me during her relationship. So, she came to me and we started hanging out every night and getting closer. We had a really great connection to each other and I could tell by just the way we looked at each other. Every conversation we had was meaningful and we just enjoyed each other's company. I asked her if she only wanted me around because of her break up and she said no I've liked you for a while I just couldn't do anything about it. So I believe her and her ex came back into the picture after a week and as soon as I heard about it I went cold and disappeared. Fast forward 2 months and she gives me a call saying she wants to hang out at her house because we have mutual friends and she wanted me to come with. My buddy calls me and tells me never mind because her ex went off on her for wanting me to come over. So my buddy comes over and tells me what she said to him. She told him she wishes it wasn't like this between us because she misses me. Well after hearing this I'm pretty much confused as to why she would want me to come around so about two weeks goes by and I find myself really missing her. I send her a text that morning telling her I want to see her and I ask her when she is free and she says she's always busy which is true, she works a lot of hours but she told me we could get together one day after she gets off work and I told her I really miss her and would love to see her so let me know when we can meet up and she says "I will, I miss you too..." Does anyone have any idea as to what she might be feeling or what I should/shouldn't do?
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted October 17, 2014 Posted October 17, 2014 I have a feeling she'll be a yo yo girl until she gets tired of it. May take another round or two. You can do the three strikes thing with her, and be done with it. Right now you are almost halfway to getting a second strike out of her. So it is up to you on how far you are willing to go.
d0nnivain Posted October 17, 2014 Posted October 17, 2014 She loves her BF & you are an ego boost on the side. The BF is right to put his foot down & put you outside the boundaries of what he considers acceptable in his relationship. This girl is bad news.
Gaeta Posted October 17, 2014 Posted October 17, 2014 Do not date people freshly out of a relationship no matter what they say! They think they are over their ex but YOU should know better. They're thinking that way because they are mad, confused, hurt. You on the other end have all of your head to understand that a girl 2 weeks out of a relationship, with a history of back and forth with boyfriend, is not dating material. Let it go.
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