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Should I tell the girl I like we can no longer be friends?


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There is this girl that i have liked for 2 years who has a boyfriend and everyday i cant stop thinking about her. In the last 4 months we have became really good friends and my attraction to her has just continued to grow, we text and have consversations every day and hang out together and i think she does like me.

 

Her boyfriend treats her like ****, they always argue which is always his fault and he cant admit he does something wrong which breaks my heart seeing her upset and knowing i cant do anything about at. But in the end they make up but it happens agan and again. I just want to be her bf so she is treated with the respect she should be treated with. This makes me so sad and depressed as i cant bare seeing her upset.

 

I dont think about any other girl only her every second of everyday. It is killing me seeing her with her boyfriend so how should i tell her i can no longer be friends if i cant be her boyfriend as i cant carry on for this much longer. I will be with her at a party this weekend any suggestions?

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Tell her the truth without expecting anything from it.

 

Tell her that you are tired of seeing her go through S#*$ with her BF, and that you cannot go on being friends because you love her. That simple, she'll take it for what it is. Who knows you may get a ring up by her when she realizes what she has with you over the other.

 

Though if she does break off the relationship, to take things slow, as she needs to break connections and detach. Once the other is out of the picture, you can trust her with your heart. No need to be in a yo yo relationship.

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