Dork Vader Posted October 16, 2014 Posted October 16, 2014 Met a woman things moves to fast, she suggest we slow things down and get to know each other. I finally get another date with her. Almost instantly she goes into extremely sexual talk. Next thing i know she asked me if I had given eloping any thought. I respond "with you?!?" "Yeah who else?!?" "I thought we were taking things slow." "Okay let me rephrase that is it something you would do?" "Yes" There was a TON of kissing and a ton of physical contact. Then I invite her back to my place and she says that's a bad idea. Yet the sexual conversations continue. She would ask me how badly I wanted to ____ her. I'm confused as heck?!?! I don't flipping get it!
Gloria25 Posted October 16, 2014 Posted October 16, 2014 I wonder if :bunny: boiling is coming up soon... Dude, if "do" end up sleeping with her, I hope you use condoms and spermicide...
Author Dork Vader Posted October 16, 2014 Author Posted October 16, 2014 (edited) We've already had sex. The first week we met we spent nearly every day together. Thus I am confused. What is boiling? Edited October 16, 2014 by Dork Vader
Gloria25 Posted October 16, 2014 Posted October 16, 2014 We've already had sex. The first week we met we spent nearly every day together. Thus I am confused. What is boiling? The "boiling"? Ever see the movie called "Fatal Attraction"?
TigerLilly78 Posted October 16, 2014 Posted October 16, 2014 Shes got some hidden mental issues my guess bi polar to start off with be careful shes not making a shred of sense..
ExpatInItaly Posted October 16, 2014 Posted October 16, 2014 Her behaviour is erratic. I'd keep my distance and take her words with a grain of salt. She sounds unbalanced.
MalachiX Posted October 16, 2014 Posted October 16, 2014 Either she's unbalanced with some kind of issues or she's deliberatly screwing with you. There are women (and men too) who like to play games and do the "hot/cold" thing because they think it helps them land a partner. Often they read moronic books that suggest this kind of psychological warfare in dating. It's stupid and a good recipe for a bad relationship. Either way, it sounds like you may want to break things off. Either you'll end up with someone who is nuts or end up with someone who thinks that playing mind-games is the best way to get what they want. Neither sounds like a lot of fun to me.
Keenly Posted October 16, 2014 Posted October 16, 2014 She sounds like a compulsive impulsive flip flopper. She will say / do whatever is on her mind at that exact moment with zero thought towards the future or what that particular action / statement will cause. Be very... very careful with this woman. She will get you in a lot of trouble if you don't put your line in the sand.
Priv Posted October 16, 2014 Posted October 16, 2014 (edited) What is eloping? I googled it and this came out: 1. to run off secretly to be married, usually without the consent or knowledge of one's parents. 2. to run away with a lover. 3. to leave without permission or notification; escape: At age 21, the apprentice eloped from his master. 4. (of a person with a mental disorder or cognitive impairment) to leave or run away from a safe area or safe premises. She wants you to secretly marry you?!? Is this the discussion we are having? Because this is going way over my head! And it should be going over your head too. And you should run! Edited October 16, 2014 by Priv
Author Dork Vader Posted October 16, 2014 Author Posted October 16, 2014 She was suggesting we run off and get married in secret.
CaliGypsy Posted October 16, 2014 Posted October 16, 2014 I've been online (dating ) a few weeks. I'm starting to understand why so many men refer to me as normal lol . They say it with the reverence normally saved for hot or beautiful. She sounds like she's a wild one
mightycpa Posted October 17, 2014 Posted October 17, 2014 Imagine if she was an engine in your car. Your car would careen along the highway, speeding and slowing down at points and rates completely out of your control. You'd fear for your life. Now imagine she's an engine in your relationship. Now imagine she's an engine in your bed. You like the bed part, but not the relationship or car part, amirite? There's your answer.
ExpatInItaly Posted October 17, 2014 Posted October 17, 2014 She was suggesting we run off and get married in secret. And does that not strike you as creepy?
Emilia Posted October 17, 2014 Posted October 17, 2014 She is very unstable. This will come and bite you on the butt.
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