Eighty_nine Posted October 20, 2014 Posted October 20, 2014 Thank you Fondue, Lissvarna, Gaeta & Acrosstheuniverse I didn't mind in the least that Friday was a last minute thing. In the past when we great started to date I never accepted any suggestions to meet up the same day or the next day. He already knows I just figured why not? And besides I was miserable on the other date last Friday and glad to see him. Yes I will keep my expectations low as I've done so far. We have been texting a lot more since Friday. More than ever before. To me this indicates his level of interest is at least growing. I know many of you disagree that this will lead anywhere. However I'm an eternal optimist. For now I am going to keep being myself and date other people till things change otherwise. I am also not going to initiate the next date, that's up to him. I will not chase him. If he goes back to his habit of infrequent contact I will lose interest. Till I do, I want to see how the next few weeks go? I think we get a little too crazy with "rules"; if a guy breaks them or makes a "no-no", like by asking you out last minute, everyone assumes the worst. I mean, it might not work out, but as long as he isn't consistently treating you very poorly or obviously just using you, you should see it out! Feelings grow and develop all of the time. There's no reason someone has to be totally in love with and committed to you immediately. It's ok to just like someone and go slow!
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