Darren2013 Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 First I have to know for sure that the woman has romantic or sexual interest in me in order for challenge to work. The idea behind challenge is to be the opposite of being clingy and the opposite of appearing too excited to be there on a date. One way I can implement challenge is to friend-zone a woman who gives all the signs and hints of a romantic/sexual interest. In other words make her think I only like her as a friend. When she is flirty with me I will respond with friendliness and not flirt back. I've come to the conclusion that the best way for me to deal with the woman that I have a crush on is to make her think that I do not like her. Hence I did the right thing the other day to decline an invitation to go with her for coffee on a break. Besides I don't know for sure that it was a sign of interest on her part since coworkers hang out on breaks all the time. Nothing unusual about it. Nonetheless the only way I know how to deal with her now is to pretend that I don't like her. This is part of working challenge anyway. I should always give a woman the impression that I do not like her more than a friend. Being the first one to end conversations is another way to work challenge. Being the first one to end the dates is another way to work challenge. A first date should be no more than 20-25 minutes. Another way to work challenge is in the bedroom. When my girlfriend wants to give me oral sex then I turn her down and say I am not that crazy about getting sucked on and that I just want us to be friends.
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