elgringo Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 My wife and I have been separated for about 6 months. For a recap of why we split up check here http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/separation-divorce/456665-wife-wants-divorce-if-i-cancel-adoption Anyway, during the separation i was seeing someone. I broke up with this other woman 6 weeks ago because she had some serious emotional baggage from her last relationship and she wasn't prepared to work on it. Anyhow, today i was at a meeting for work and it just so happens that my wife was at the meeting too. To make things worse, the woman i was seeing works at this place. My wife saw the other woman and then told me she was going to talk to her. I asked her not to because it would be embarrassing, but she went ahead. I dont know if she really talked to her or not. Not really sure what to do. Other woman and i have been going no contact. Should I contact her and see what happened or just leave it alone? Not sure what to tell wife either. She knows i was seeing this person. I dont want her to start harassing the other woman. Argggggh.
2sunny Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 It's really not your place at this point. You're not with your W and you're not with your OW. They can discuss anything they wish. Don't make it worse by stirring that pot. 5
trippi1432 Posted October 16, 2014 Posted October 16, 2014 Have to agree with 2Sunny on this one....."Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it". This one you should just things lie where they are. Nothing like two women comparing notes...you just won't win however you try to "damage control". 1
still_an_Angel Posted October 16, 2014 Posted October 16, 2014 Not much to do for now. See how it plays out first. 1
Author elgringo Posted October 16, 2014 Author Posted October 16, 2014 Thanks for the sound advice everyone. No need to pee on a hornet's nest. 3
Miss Clavel Posted October 17, 2014 Posted October 17, 2014 i think she should have listened to you and not talked to your ex. even tho i don't trust my ex, at all, if he told me, "please don't talk to that woman, we broke up because she's cray cray" i wouldn't talk to the person. and why should i? i want nothing to do with either one of them, he and i are divorced and i'm not interested in them.
LifeNomad Posted October 18, 2014 Posted October 18, 2014 Thanks for the sound advice everyone. No need to pee on a hornet's nest. Looks like your in quite a pickle
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