joeyNoelle Posted March 10, 2005 Posted March 10, 2005 Hey guys.. I dumped my boyfriend of only four months anout a month and a bit ago...i saw him recently and he wants me back..says he misses me..and this has made him realizse how much he wants to be with me ,etc etc Point is i dumped him because he could be a bit of an inconsiderate jerk at times and i figured..what do i need this for.. i deserve better than this and better than him. So yeh it was hard but i thought it was better for me to be single than with him..where for the most part of the relationship towards the end i was feeling unhappy. Since then i have met a few nice guys..been asked out etc but i just found that i wasn't really interested..i decided i wasn't just going to go out with someone for the sake of going out unless i felt a connection between us or i met someoen i really liked. But now seeing my ex again....he has been pursuing ever since in some nice ways and some other more bizarre ways... i agreed to see him on saturday..so my question is When is it time to give your ex a second chance? What questions or things would you ask to make a better assesment of whether its time for another shot or to just move on? Is there anything you should look out for that is an obvious ,its wrong to get back together? Just feeling a little confused knowing it could go either way....in need of advice and support..thanks guys
Author joeyNoelle Posted March 10, 2005 Author Posted March 10, 2005 i will give you an example....for instance...i would see him on fri night...he would say do u want me to come over on sun..i would say yeh..sunday comes... by.. lunchtime i haven't heard from him..so i message asking if he is still coming over..he will reply..my friend got me tickets to go see this band so i cant come over today.... very inconsiderate....if i hadn't messaged i probably wouldn't have heard from him till that night when he called to tell me how great the concert was..or maybe just gotten a message about it..who knows.
ReluctantRomeo Posted March 10, 2005 Posted March 10, 2005 If he's willing to change, compromise or otherwise work on the main things which irritated you... .... and you're keen on him (which it sounds like you are)... ... then take him back for sure. But he has to be genuinely willing to work on the issues. And so do you.
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