ctorres626 Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 (edited) I moved to Brazil earlier this year where I met a wonderful girl! We are both 27 years old. She suffered an emotional period with a past relationship almost three years ago and she doesn't want a relationship. Her best friend and closest friends have told me that it is very difficult to do anything with her! I sincerely like her and am trying to make it work with her for about three months now! We have had the talk about "us" but she doesn't know if her heart will change of being scared to be in a relationship and she just doesn't want to get hurt again. She doesn't know what will happen but if things do happen then let them play out and occur "naturally". Her best friend has said she is "overcoming her fears" and that I am on the right track wit her, to go slow and things will be great in the end! The signs recently that things are progressing is something I see but maybe you guys can help me figure out what needs to happen next. 1. She knows how I feel and that I want more. 2. We talk to each other every night before we go to sleep. 3. We have nicknames for each other (Minnie and Mickey mouse) 4. She told me I have been the closest guy she has allowed to get to know her and create a bond in a long time. 5. We go out every Friday night to restaurants, shows or whatever just the two of us. 6. A few weeks ago I posted a picture on Facebook with another girl at a bar and she got jealous! 7. She makes plans for the future to travel somewhere with me and she loves to go out with me all the time and talk to me. 8. Last week we went out on a double date and we were playing a drinking game, she was dared to give me a peck on the lips, she lost twice and I got two quick kisses! 9. Two weeks ago we went to see a play and she began to intertwine her arms with mine a become a little closer. We have never kissed before other than number 8 but we were all drinking but she remembers the whole night. I think we are dating perhaps and taking it slow if we both invest a lot of time talking to each other, going out and having a great time... I am taking it slow and at her pace because she is scared. The signs point to maybe she is beginning to warm up even more to me but still at a slow pace. I think she is worth it and a really good girl with a lot going for her! I am a patient person and my intentions are not to hurt her. I have talked about going back to Chicago and she has expressed that it would hurt her if If I left (my intentions are to stay here because I love it here) My thought is to continue to go out with her, show that she can trust me and continue this bond we have. Hopefully then she begins to change a little mentally. I don't want to be just her friend and have expressed that to her. She also expressed to let things happen and go with the flow but she doesn't want to create expectations for me... She is not going out with anyone else, just me for the last couple months... I can only hope for the best in the end but I hope I am in the right path and not fooling myself! Thoughts? Edited October 15, 2014 by ctorres626
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