I kissed this girl and she then said "I don't know." What could this mean?

[VedderisBetter]

I went to this girl's house and we ended up kissing at the end briefly and she pulled away and said "I don't know." It was bizarre. I then said what do you mean and she said that I was making her feel awkward. I figured she either meant she didn't know if she likes me or wasn't sure if she liked the kiss. We wrapped it up shortly after as she had to get up at 5:30 am.

[rdet123]

First off, yes...Eddie Vedder is the man!

 

Secondly, I think she is unsure of you and that's why she said she doesn't know. I would back off of her for a while and wait for her to come back to you. She is clearly unsure if she likes you or not. Just go about your daily business and give her some room. If she comes back then it was meant to be, if not, then I would move on

[Jennavee12]

I went to this girl's house and we ended up kissing at the end briefly and she pulled away and said "I don't know." It was bizarre. I then said what do you mean and she said that I was making her feel awkward. I figured she either meant she didn't know if she likes me or wasn't sure if she liked the kiss. We wrapped it up shortly after as she had to get up at 5:30 am.

 

3 explainations:

 

 

1.) She felt too pressured into the kiss, and it moved too quickly for her liking. When a girl feels obligated by a guy to kiss him, she does it, and does it only to benefit him. She could've reacted this way because she persay didn't like you like that, and it just made her uncomfortable.

 

 

2.) She feels like you just will want sex from her. Again, goes along with the "moving too fast," idea. When you start kissing, most often it leads to something else. Maybe she feels like that's all it'll turn in to, and she's scared.

 

 

3.) She is unsure of how she feels in general, she could be talking to other guys, or maybe she's already talking to someone. Again, under pressure, girls will do things, because they don't want to disappoint. Then she felt guilty, and told you quickly she had to go.

[AndrewJDC]

Or...

 

You asked her a question before kissing her and she did not know the answer.

[HappyLove]

She's not into you. Move on. She wasn't expecting to and didn't like kissing you. I'd leave her alone and let her come to you if she figures out what she wants. In the meantime date others who know without a doubt that they want you.

[Haerts]

You should've asked her: what is it that you don't know?

 

Really, what's up with people who does that kind of stuff? Like, they say "I don't know", when they clearly know what they want. It's like they want to keep you in that mysterious void with your brain spinning around a thousand doubts. I hate that!

 

Well, since you didn't ask before, you should text her, call her, or next time you meet her, mention it: "that day after we kissed, you said 'I don't know'... I'm confused, what did that mean?". Maybe she'll tell you and you won't have to wonder why.

[HappyLove]

There really is no mystery here to figure out! She LITERALLY TOLD YOU 'You're making me feel awkward'. Do you think anyone's ever said that to Brad Pitt? Look man she's not into you! Don't make her have to come out and say it. I think the slight chance of hope you may have is the fact that she did hang out with you so back off and see if she comes to you.

[oberkeat]

She's not into you. Move on. She wasn't expecting to and didn't like kissing you. I'd leave her alone and let her come to you if she figures out what she wants. In the meantime date others who know without a doubt that they want you.

 

Agreed 100 percent. OP should delete this girl's number immediately. You don't want to chase after someone who is lukewarm about you.

[VedderisBetter]

I am convinced that this girl is completely crazy or just a b@#$@. After I deleted her number and her off my Facebook, she contacts me today saying, "Why haven't you text me back at all? Did I do something? I thought we had plans?" I told her she never texted me back after the night we first met and she claims she did text me back and texted me everyday since. I know she is full of it. I never received these texts she is claiming she sent. She then got mad when I asked her if it didn't work out with someone else because I told her I saw her on POF and then she decides 3 days later to get back in touch. Cray! Cray!

[Assasda]

I think the thing is, youre moving too fast.

 

If you go right from talking to a girl, to kissing, she doesnt trust you yet.

Doesnt mean she doesnt like you.

It means she's getting to know you, and you still need to build a little more trust