AtraXion Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 I need your help guys. I don't know what do. A week ago I met this hot young single mom, we had this one night stand and we continued on seeing each other and she introduced me to her daughter but the problem is I have a girlfriend. Is it okay if I continue meeting her while I'm in a relationship or should I stop? It's just that I feel sorry for her because her child doesn't have a father and she always tell me that she needed someone who will make her happy. What should I do?
xUnknown Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 You break up with your girlfriend because you cheated. You stop seeing that mom because she is manipulating you to staying. You grow up. 6
CarrieT Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 You stop seeing both of these women until you are ready to be with just one. Confess to your girlfriend that you cheated and tell the Single Mom you have a girlfriend. 2
mightycpa Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 You should consider finding out why this totally hot mom is single. It could be him, but then again, it could be her. Your pickle got you into quite the pickle here, didn't it? There's a lot to be said for not dating single moms if you don't have a kid yourself, but that is a whole other subject. 2
SoThatHappened Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 You should consider finding out why this totally hot mom is single. It could be him, but then again, it could be her. Your pickle got you into quite the pickle here, didn't it? There's a lot to be said for not dating single moms if you don't have a kid yourself, but that is a whole other subject. mighty's right. Find out the reason the father isn't in the picture. I dated a young, hot single mom in junior college. It was tough. I dated another one over the past year. I now know why the father isn't in the picture as I dodged a bullet. Either way, if you're going to stray for a hot girl with baggage, you need to end it with your current girlfriend.
GoBlue Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 Well AtraXion - how would you like to be treated by your girlfriend? Do you want her to pretend that she is committed to you while secretly seeing someone else? Or, would you like her to be honest and move on? How about this "hot young single mom"? Do you really think that would go somewhere? I don't know very many single moms who would introduce a man to her daughter after having the kind of experience you described. Besides, I don't think it actually counts as a "one night stand" if you continue seeing each other. What do you want in your life? How do you want to be treated? How about doing for both of these young ladies what you would want someone to do for you. As a father of a young single mom myself - I hope you make a good decision that is not selfish and hurtful.
mrty Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 If you don't see nothing wrong with that whole set-up, your whole question in fact, then If I was you I would worry about myself. This has to be a joke nobody is this clueless.
Ducky71 Posted October 16, 2014 Posted October 16, 2014 If you're doing something you can't tell your GF about that's a good indication you shouldn't be doing it. If you're going to date a single Mom, you have to be mature enough to realize she is a package deal. If you're not up to the task from the word go, man up and break it off. If you're hanging around because you 'feel sorry' for her, well, let us know how that works out... No woman worth her salt will say she needs a man to make her happy. 1
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