stillcold Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 (edited) *delete thread please* Edited October 15, 2014 by stillcold
daizy Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 From my personal experience - I think she's just being cautious as to not get too involved/attached. I do the same exact thing, I never initiate actually, maybe once, he always initiates contact and makes arrangements to see each other but I always look forward to it. The difference is we've only had our 4th date and you've had 12, but that could be her traditional side kicking in. Maybe she believes the guy has to pursue until it becomes a relationship? A lot of girls have that mentality (making the guy work). It also depends what kind of guy you are. Some girls also get worried about being overly clingy/thinks they have to make the guy miss them ect.. This post was eye opening though! I may initiate some more myself. 1
Author stillcold Posted October 15, 2014 Author Posted October 15, 2014 From my personal experience - I think she's just being cautious as to not get too involved/attached. I do the same exact thing, I never initiate actually, maybe once, he always initiates contact and makes arrangements to see each other but I always look forward to it. The difference is we've only had our 4th date and you've had 12, but that could be her traditional side kicking in. Maybe she believes the guy has to pursue until it becomes a relationship? A lot of girls have that mentality (making the guy work). It also depends what kind of guy you are. Some girls also get worried about being overly clingy/thinks they have to make the guy miss them ect.. This post was eye opening though! I may initiate some more myself. Thanks for the reply even though I ended up deleting the original content of the post haha. Yeah, nothing wrong with a little initiation here and there from the girl's side; it lets us know you guys are in for the ride too!
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