Stuffed up asking her out; does she even like me?

[Tik]

There's this girl who has been occasionally texting me. We then went to a party one night where I got her number and when I disappeared, the next week she was asking where I'd gone. From there, we've been texting all day throughout. When I've stopped messaging her, she has added me on snapchat (another form of IM) and when I let that die off too, she started messaging me on facebook.

 

I'd started hitting the gym a lot and when I'd mentioned this, she's posted on social media of her spontaneously joining the gym. I had a friend end up in hospital and was worried about him and the next day, she's added that friend on social media (even though I know she does not get on well with him). I'd mentioned I'd gone to this national park the other day and she asked why she was not invited. Whenever I've walked past her, she's cleared a seat for me to join her; even if I've continued walking.

 

At university her friends seem to disappear when we're working together to leave us alone. I was walking past her friends the other day to which I caught them pointing and giggling.

 

Now the other day, I was too tired to message her so let the conversation dieout. That night she messaged me on social media to keep things going and invited me to the beach. I'd already had plans so declined but as she's always mentioned how she's always free friday nights as they're spent 'dating' her books, I told her to keep this night free so that I can pull her away from the books. Now I replied to this just as she replied back so I did not get a yes/ no from her. I know, I should be asking her out face to face or the likes but I was just tired and not sure why I even asked her as I'm not that fussed at the moment (have other goals I'm focussed on). So now that I'm all in, I replied with an inside joke, something along the lines of hoping she'll have fun at the beach and I'll see her friday night. She thanked me and responded to the joke and I've not messaged back since.

 

So as you see, I did not get a confirmed yes or no from her which is nutting me over. Bear in mind on friday we've got class together and she'll always find a way to sit with me so I guess I'll allude to it then. My friends on the outer observing thinks she is totally into me, I'm not too sure. I've been burned so many times, I don't even know what I'm doing or what I'm getting myself into these days.

 

Thanks for reading guys.

[Assasda]

I think she is totally into you.

The think is, you should continue your active life even while seeing her.

Thats one of the things she likes about you.

 

It sounds like you have it all under control to me

[Tik]

Thanks man, I've read and really respected your advice on this forum. It's kind of the realistic pill a lot of guys here need - to build themselves a good life and not make woman and dating their no.1 goals.