Ninja987 Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 I recently met this girl while I was a work. She works in the adjacent building next door.There is even an entry door from our shop to hers. She comes over to visit with me often and we talk about practically everything. She always laughs at my jokes, smiles, stares at me, and has complimented me numerous times. I am an avid runner, and she is always asking if I am going out for a run after work. To be honest, she really asks me lots of questions! I even have her number and we've exchanged texts. Yesterday she asked if I was going running. She then mentioned that she was planning on going for a run herself after work. Stupidly, I told her to have a good time and be safe, then I left work. Upon review, I was thinking maybe she was giving me an opening to ask her out, and I completely brushed her off inadvertently. *facepalm* Does this sound like an opening to you? Did I miss the signals? Also, do you think she likes me based on the signs she's showing?
Redhead14 Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 I recently met this girl while I was a work. She works in the adjacent building next door.There is even an entry door from our shop to hers. She comes over to visit with me often and we talk about practically everything. She always laughs at my jokes, smiles, stares at me, and has complimented me numerous times. I am an avid runner, and she is always asking if I am going out for a run after work. To be honest, she really asks me lots of questions! I even have her number and we've exchanged texts. Yesterday she asked if I was going running. She then mentioned that she was planning on going for a run herself after work. Stupidly, I told her to have a good time and be safe, then I left work. Upon review, I was thinking maybe she was giving me an opening to ask her out, and I completely brushed her off inadvertently. *facepalm* Does this sound like an opening to you? Did I miss the signals? Also, do you think she likes me based on the signs she's showing? It doesn't matter if they were signals or not. If you like her and you are talking and sharing as much as you have been, you have nothing to lose by just asking her out. 1
preraph Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 Oh, my gosh, you are too dense for words. We have cowardly guys all over this board waiting in futility for some woman to come up to them and throw themselves at them just like this one has done -- and now you've made me wonder if it's happening to them and they're just too dim to notice. What are you waiting for? Does she has to come up to you and grab your butt or something for you to be convinced she's not going to reject you if you ask her out?? For the love of God, tell her "Let's run together at the lake Saturday" or whatever. And then take her to light lunch or breakfast after. 1
d0nnivain Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 You didn't miss the signals. You are just slow on the uptake. Yes, she wants you to ask her to do something. Play nicely Preraph.
preraph Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 ^ "dim," "slow on the uptake," "dense" -- all means the same thing. LOL. A good scout is always prepared. 1
Assasda Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 You dont have to be upset at yourself for anything. dont beat yourself up Yeah, I think she was asking to go running with you, and its always a good sign when they ask you a lot of questions. - Next time just go running with her. Easy
Author Ninja987 Posted October 15, 2014 Author Posted October 15, 2014 Well, I may be a bit "dim" or "dense" as you say. The huge grin plastered across my face right now would certainly be an indication of that! I will admit I was probably over analyzing. I'm just extremely guarded because I've been hurt before, and hate rejection (who doesn't?) However, all of your assertions have validated my suspicions! Thanks a million! I'm going to make a move next time I see her. I'll let you all know how it goes. 2
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