ionut21 Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 Ok everybody,I know this sounds weird but I need everybodys help,I am in loved with this girl and she is my soul mate plato's had spoked about it or the one for me but we broke up and she hate's me and I hated her at the beggining but I thoght about it,I made misteaks she made misteaks,and I dont care who fault is all I know that I love her, but it doesn't matter how I feel if she hates me and she is with another guy who is in loved,but I need to get her back,I know for some is wrong what I want to do or is not healthy but I don't care,I need to get her back to win her heart again and I need your help a long time ago I made her a love letter to win her heart and I know is childish but it work and I know it will work again so I need your advice I need every thing you can provide,I made this campaign and I need to share my love letter until is reaches to her on facebook,twitter or any social site with the #getherback I need this to happen so please help me #Get her back
Redhead14 Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 Ok everybody,I know this sounds weird but I need everybodys help,I am in loved with this girl and she is my soul mate plato's had spoked about it or the one for me but we broke up and she hate's me and I hated her at the beggining but I thoght about it,I made misteaks she made misteaks,and I dont care who fault is all I know that I love her, but it doesn't matter how I feel if she hates me and she is with another guy who is in loved,but I need to get her back,I know for some is wrong what I want to do or is not healthy but I don't care,I need to get her back to win her heart again and I need your help a long time ago I made her a love letter to win her heart and I know is childish but it work and I know it will work again so I need your advice I need every thing you can provide,I made this campaign and I need to share my love letter until is reaches to her on facebook,twitter or any social site with the #getherback I need this to happen so please help me #Get her back I, for one, cannot and will not tell you anything that will help you get her back. If you are hell bent on doing that, do not write any more letters, stalk her, hound her in any way. Call her, tell her how you feel and then step back. Prepare yourself to be hurt, however, and then deal with that hurt maturely and with dignity. Don't prolong your pain. 2
d0nnivain Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 Letters never work. I don't care what it says. Don't send it. She'a already with another guy. Leave them alone. You dumped her. I'm going to assume for valid reasons. Your current regret is about your loneliness & how hard dating is. Parts of your relationship were easy & she is familiar. You don't really want her back; you simply don't want to be alone. 1
Author ionut21 Posted October 14, 2014 Author Posted October 14, 2014 For everybody's information I don't stalk her,I don't make 100 love letters a day and I don't hound her,as a matter of fact we haven't seen, talk or even look at each other for three to four months even if we are course colleges and have the same friends.We have talk about it and we decide to be just friends,but after I have behave exactaly as a friend she didn't want to see me again and that what made me to heat her at the beggining.I didn't breake up with her,she breaks up with me just to date this guy,I don't feel alone,acctually my "matrimonial" life works very good and it's not hard for me to find someone and I don't feel alone because I am mature enough to enjoy or find extraculicular thing to do to spend my time so I answer your notask questions,and before to judge her and tell she doesn't deserve me or I can do better I want to remind that I had made some misteaks that I'm not proud and I know that it had hurt her,so if you want a reason for why I want this and why I want her back well I have only one answer,I love her,and no I'm not a crazy guy,I'm not mad and I'm not in denial, I'm a very rational man I had spent time into thinking and find the pros and cons and this is what I want to do
smackie9 Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 For everybody's information I don't stalk her,I don't make 100 love letters a day and I don't hound her,as a matter of fact we haven't seen, talk or even look at each other for three to four months even if we are course colleges and have the same friends.We have talk about it and we decide to be just friends,but after I have behave exactaly as a friend she didn't want to see me again and that what made me to heat her at the beggining.I didn't breake up with her,she breaks up with me just to date this guy,I don't feel alone,acctually my "matrimonial" life works very good and it's not hard for me to find someone and I don't feel alone because I am mature enough to enjoy or find extraculicular thing to do to spend my time so I answer your notask questions,and before to judge her and tell she doesn't deserve me or I can do better I want to remind that I had made some misteaks that I'm not proud and I know that it had hurt her,so if you want a reason for why I want this and why I want her back well I have only one answer,I love her,and no I'm not a crazy guy,I'm not mad and I'm not in denial, I'm a very rational man I had spent time into thinking and find the pros and cons and this is what I want to do The truth of the matter is you can't force or make someone love you or want you back. Love letters, making more money, working out, driving a nice car, jewelry, airplane writing something in the sky, killing her BF off, getting a tattoo, showing up on a Harley, becoming the king of England, smooth talk, a magic spell or potion, will not get her back. Her heart has forgotten about you and belongs to someone else. You are best to leave her alone, and if by chance one day she reaches out to you, that's when you can try and win her back. She is the one that has to make the move, not you. If you push for her, it will just push her much further away.
Author ionut21 Posted October 14, 2014 Author Posted October 14, 2014 We break up break up because I ask to have sex with her and then she didn't want to speak with me,so she dates this guy for a month since we didn't speak and after that we decide do be just friend,so I was exactly as a friend,and she didn't like my behavior and she becomes frustrated and got angry because of that until her boyfriend decides to threatened me into leaving her,I confront her to she if it's true or not,if she put's her boyfriends to threatened me she says that I'm crazy and her boyfriend doesn't do that so I had to decide between to save my dignity and show her the truth but to hurt her or to leave it be and see what's happen and as I expected she didn't want to see me again
Author ionut21 Posted October 14, 2014 Author Posted October 14, 2014 The truth of the matter is you can't force or make someone love you or want you back. Love letters, making more money, working out, driving a nice car, jewelry, airplane writing something in the sky, killing her BF off, getting a tattoo, showing up on a Harley, becoming the king of England, smooth talk, a magic spell or potion, will not get her back. Her heart has forgotten about you and belongs to someone else. You are best to leave her alone, and if by chance one day she reaches out to you, that's when you can try and win her back. She is the one that has to make the move, not you. If you push for her, it will just push her much further away. I know that,but I don't want to do this to impress her or something like that,what I want is this,I want that this letter to be share to everybody it's not about the fame that it's get it's about destiny,even I the most rational and the most scheptical person had become to believe in destiny,if everybody share this then destiny will do in such way that this letter will reach to her at the exact and right time and at the exact and right moment and the letter will remind her of me,it's idiotic I know,it's stupid I know,it will never work I know but what it's wrong into trying,I didn't expect to fall in loved with this girl so what is the worst thing that could happen I have nothing to lose
Author ionut21 Posted October 14, 2014 Author Posted October 14, 2014 The truth of the matter is you can't force or make someone love you or want you back. Love letters, making more money, working out, driving a nice car, jewelry, airplane writing something in the sky, killing her BF off, getting a tattoo, showing up on a Harley, becoming the king of England, smooth talk, a magic spell or potion, will not get her back. Her heart has forgotten about you and belongs to someone else. You are best to leave her alone, and if by chance one day she reaches out to you, that's when you can try and win her back. She is the one that has to make the move, not you. If you push for her, it will just push her much further away. And how to know when,what if she reaches me but she wants just to be friends,what should I do,when should I know
todreaminblue Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 you cant change how another feels it is up to them it is their choice, to feel or not to feel.You just wont know if she will reach out to you or not, what would be really good for you is too concentrate on your life without her......to concentrate on you and live your life.. join new clubs do things that you have never done before...fall in love with your life and the people around you who love you...... cherish them.. fall in love with nature and the place you live in.... fall in love with everything but her.......put all your love into people who love you back...including yourself...... if she comes back she was meant to come back...if she doesnt....then you are living a life that is full and happy without her....deb 1
d0nnivain Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 She broke up with you for what was for her a valid reason: You were pressuring her for sex. If she felt pressure she didn't feel respected or understood. She has since moved on to another man. She appears content with him. No matter how much you have changed & no matter how much you regret any mistakes you made, you cannot get her back. She has moved on. Leave her be. 1
smackie9 Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 And how to know when,what if she reaches me but she wants just to be friends,what should I do,when should I know When she has broken up with her BF. If she communicates with you, you tell her everything, then leave it up to her if she wants to see you again. It's all up to her. You need to step back and let her come to you.
Author ionut21 Posted November 5, 2014 Author Posted November 5, 2014 So we are in the same college and study the same thing but because I had some financial problems I couldn't make some time to go to the courses for a month and she at first send me a message on Facebook and ask me why I don't come at school,I told her that I have some problems but I there is no need to be worries because I can handle it,and she says that she's worried that she doesn't know anything about me and to be careful and not let her down, and I said OK I will try my best,and all of a sudden I ask her if she has my phone nr, she says no,so I give it to her and since then we haven't talk for a week when she called me and ask me if I'm going to a course that she is going and I should be there and then we start to chat and she ask me how I was I told her that I was OK,to keep it positive,and then I ask how she was and she says not so great,that she tired,that she feels miserable,and it was awkward because I expect that she will tell that she's feeling great and wonderful and then I try to cheer her up in the only way I know that will work for her and we start to chat like we chat on the phone before,and then she called me this morning,telling me that she had a dream about me,so I ask her if it was a bad one or a good one and she says a good one,and again she asked me if a go to a course,that she will go and I should be there and I said I can't.So what should I do next?
Mrin Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 and again she asked me if a go to a course,that she will go and I should be there and I said I can't.So what should I do next? OMG do you guys see it??? I just knew he had one in him! /snark
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