Pandalee Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 Me and my ex boyfriend broke up several months ago as he is a drug addict, abusive and has BPD. Since then I got over him and started dating a new guy who's wonderful and only ever wants to make me happy. I like him a lot. He's great and everything you'd want in a partner. However, last Monday my ex contacted me and told me he tried to kill himself and had been in rehab/a psychiatric ward and that he loves and misses me and all he thinks about is me. Then he changed his number, blocked all contact with me and has been making it obvious that he's been getting with other girls etc. It's been on my mind for the last week and makes me really angry. Now I'm missing my ex and I don't know of I should continue my current relationship and give myself time to move on again.
tatersalad Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 It sounds like you have an emotionally abusive / controlling ex. If I were you I would cut all contact, go NC, and have nothing to do with him ever again. With abusive relationships there are so many highs... but so many lows. The lows aren't worth it. Erase him from your life. 2
Frank2thepoint Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 Now I'm missing my ex and I don't know of I should continue my current relationship and give myself time to move on again. You are not over your ex-boyfriend. The simple fact that you admit to missing him, already verifies this. You are very strong to admit that you know it would be unfair to your current boyfriend to continue like this. I recommend for you to take your own advice, amicably end your current relationship, and spend time to heal.
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