windows Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 I was invited to a wedding sometime early next year - but the RSVP date is in 1 month's time. I've only recently started going out with a girl, and I was wondering - what's the social etiquette behind when to or not to bring someone along as your +1? (To slightly complicate things... the wedding is my ex-girlfriend's wedding. We've remained on good terms since we broke up mutually years ago.)
Diezel Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 Personally, I'd only bring someone who was past the 6-month mark with me and in a committed relationship. Definitely not someone with just a few weeks AND to my ex-girlfriend's wedding.
Arieswoman Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 windows, If it was my boyfriend's ex's wedding I would not attend. I would also be curious as to why you have remained "on good terms" with an ex for years? In any event a month, IMO, is far too soon to be bringing a GF/BF to these sort of events.
Author windows Posted October 14, 2014 Author Posted October 14, 2014 Thanks for that - that's helped a lot. Tangental question - should I go to the wedding at all? When I said that we remained on good terms, I mean to say, there's no animosity between us but we don't really chat to each other. We literally consider each other as one friend amongst our many other friends. But how would you think my current girlfriend would feel if I went? And should I even bring I up? (Assuming that the relationships last til that time.)
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